This past week my grandfather passed away. Yes, it was heartbreaking, but it also has brought blessing into the lives of my family and I. My grandfather had been sick for over a year, so it wasn’t a major shock to us hearing news of his passing. This being one of the first major deaths within my family did make us all very frazzled, but I learned through this experience that family is the most important aspect within my life. My grandfather was always around growing up. He was at every game or performance for all 11 of his grandchildren. He was an absolute family man and I will never forget that about him, or the fact that he is the major reason why I love dessert so much!

Anyway, the true lesson that I learned from his passing is how loving and caring my family is. Minutes after his death, everyone gathered together to mourn, each grandchild reminiscing on stories of my grandfather. These were moments that I will cherish for the rest of my life. We have always been a close family, but it wasn’t until this moment that I realized that my family is the best aspect of my life.

I would never want a different one. It is sad to think that something so heartbreaking happened to make me realize that my family means the world. They are the backbone to my existence and the reason to push forward in life. They will always be there to support me though all aspects of life. My grandfather would have it no other way. He loved to be surrounded by family, and that is just what happened after his passing.

Lastly, I’d like to thank everyone who has been there to help us in this time of need, and has been there to support me and my family. My grandfather will continue to pop up within our lives at times we will least expect it, but I know deep down that he is never leaving.

Lead your life with care and compassion, and always remember that your family is the most important support system within your crazy, hectic life.