So many people always come up to me, compliment my outfit then proceed to say that they could never wear that.

Why not?

Too many of us set unnecessary “fashion restrictions” on ourselves. We feel like we need to conform to a certain style or wardrobe that we've been used to for years and years. People feel like they need to wear what everyone else is wearing, but does that truly reflect what they WANT to wear? Do you just put on a pair of high waisted shorts because it’s something that reflects your own style or do you do it to simply conform to a set standard in society?

Trends come and go. People incorporate trends if they want to or not. People feel like they have to stick to these trends because that’s what everyone else says is best at the moment. But I think it’s important we still diversify our closets and venture out. Clothing is a way to help differentiate ourselves from others. It can help us stand out and shine.

I was always confused when people were surprised that I wore certain pieces and they felt like they couldn't do the same. What did I have that gave me permission to wear a certain piece that you don’t have? What’s holding you back?

I think it’s important to remember that fashion is something you develop. It isn’t stagnant. And it’s about YOU. It’s about what makes you comfortable and shine. If you want to wear something, then wear it! So many of us are worried about what people will say to an outfit we wear. So many of us are worried about what other people will say if we wear something different to what we usually wear. Sure, there may be a few initial “Wow, new look?” kind of questions, but as long as you feel comfortable and great in your outfit, it shouldn’t matter what they say!