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Poetry On Odyssey: If They Use 'Babe' As A Weapon, It's Domestic Abuse

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Poetry On Odyssey: If They Use 'Babe' As A Weapon, It's Domestic Abuse

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One thing that's always bothered me is seeing how so many of my friends stay with people who would purposely harm them. All because out of their own kind nature they're forgiving and realize people make mistakes. While this may be the case, this is no reason to keep forgiving what's causing you pain. Especially when you deserve much better than what you are receiving. This is a poem I wrote on the issue entitled:

This Is Not A Love Poem

"Babe…

I know I messed up but I love you so much"

"Babe…

I just want to take care of you"

"Babe…

You complete me, without you, I'd die"

"Babe...

I just want what's best for us"

"Babe…

It's not you I don't trust, It's them"

"Babe…"

"Babe?"

"If you love me you'll…"

This is not a love poem

It's funny how one word can make us feel so loved

It's funny how that one word…

masks even the harm that comes with thereof

People hear these every day

And stay with the ones who they feel love

When love is the bait on the lure

that ensnare them from above

Chasing after something

After someone that doesn't dare

They toy with emotion constantly

Making you think they care

Like magic words

they taunt them

Repeatedly they flare

Off with words of drawing

So you just see them standing there

and feel…

Alone

Because you don't want to be what's known as "Difficult"

You don't want to be labeled "insane"

So you sit constantly taking

and absorbing

all the pain

It doesn't always take a fist to harm

someone you adore...

Sometimes it's just the words

That rattle them to the core

Love is like a battlefield

But it never has to be a war

Babe doesn't always mean I love you

Sometimes it's just you have something…

they want more.

This poem isn't about one personal experience, but rather multiple experiences. There's not just one simple way to identify this torture. There are many other things people do to try to control those they're with. It sickens me, however, that we live in a world where people often let this go by unnoticed. People rather accept the pain that is given to them because it's so easily believed they deserve it. They accept this feeling of "love" thinking that this is the only way they could get it. It hurts to know that many feel so beneath their worth all because some would rather take advantage of one another than to love one another. I can't honestly think of one person who wouldn't like to be happy and see those around them feel the same, so it really leaves me distraught that this is so common. I hope to live in a day where this is a thing of the past. Don't you?

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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