When people ask me what my major is in college, I tell them "nutrition and fitness." Their responses are great! Everyone is excited and supportive. When they ask what I plan to do in four years? That's another story. When I tell people that "in four years, I plan to be a police officer," their faces looks like they heard the world's most shocking news, and these are their responses.
"Why would you ever want to do a man's job?"
Excuse me, I'm sorry. Come again? A man's job? What about all of the suspects AND victims that are women? People do not take into consideration that women are not always comfortable talking to men. What about all of the victims that are too embarrassed to talk to a man, especially if it is about sexual assault or harassment? Lastly, who's to say that a woman can't do just as good of a job as a man?
"That's dangerous. Don't do that."
What isn't dangerous anymore, honestly? Wherever you go, there is ALWAYS a risk of injury or death. I would rather put my life at risk to help or save someone else. If a family living means me potentially having my life taken, I will always put others before myself. So yes, being a police officer is dangerous, but it is worth it if you see it the way I do.
Oh, and here's my favorite...
"Do you really think you'll make it?"
Make it? What do you mean? Could you explain? I don't think I will make it, I KNOW I will make it. I am strong and I am powerful. Of course I will make it. If I have the work ethic and the determination, there is NO stopping me, now!
Although people like to try to tell me where my place is and what I should be doing, I will be damned if someone tells me what I can and cannot do with my future. When the day comes, people will be breath taken that I did not listen to a friend, family member, or acquaintance that encouraged me not to follow my dreams. Don't doubt me, I'll only try harder to prove you wrong.
