6 Ways To Spend Valentine's Day If You Are A Single Woman Who Don't Need No Man

6 Ways To Spend Valentine's Day If You Are A Single Woman Who Don't Need No Man

"All the single ladies!"
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With Valentine's Day slowly approaching us, every single lady is preparing for a day of loneliness and chocolate. This year both my suitemates have boyfriends and my roommate and I are content drooling over the hot babes on our TV screen. Instead of crying and shoveling chocolate in our mouths alone here's a short list of alternative ways to spend this Valentine's Day.

1. Have a self-love day

What better way to spend the day of love than to pamper yourself. You don't need a significant other to take you on a date this year, although it would be nice. Take yourself to dinner and a movie or even go get a mani/pedi and spend the night watching good movies and wearing a face mask. This is the only way to spend the holiday treating yourself like the royalty you are.

2. Have a girls' night

Like the above option go out with a bunch of your other singles friends and have a "Galentine's Day." A group dinner is even better than being alone.

3. Bake the best chocolate dessert

Chocolate is often hand and hand with valentines day so find the best recipes you can and bake yourself the best gift of all dessert.

4. Blast Dua Lipa's album

"New Rules" isn't the only hit on this soulful altos album, her whole album screams "I DON'T NEED NO MAN." What better way to stay empowered and feel like a badass woman on this day then blasting this musical masterpiece?

5. Watch Kill Bill

Both films Kill Bill vol. 1 and 2 have just recently hit Netflix again. Another great example of the strong woman who need no man.

6. Go see "Fifty Shades Freed"

Although I will be embarrassed to admit that I not only own all the books but the films as well, on the internet, who doesn't love a successful fanfiction of "Twilight"? Plus, no one can tell me Christian Grey isn't one of the hottest men you have seen on this earth. For those willing to give it a try and laugh at how much you may like it.

All in all, we single ladies don't need to have a date this year, 2018 is the year for self-love and self-care so what better way to spend the day of love than loving ourselves.

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They say “the thrill of the chase" makes someone more enticing. There's just something about wanting something you can't have that drives you crazy (in a good way). There is never a dull moment. Pursuing him is a challenge. Nothing comes easily. What's the fun in that anyway?

I'm going to tell you this: stop chasing him. Stop forgiving him when he forgets to answer your text messages and phone calls. Stop being the one to always make plans. Stop letting him bail on you. Stop waiting around for him. Stop being lied to. Stop making excuses when he doesn't make time for you. There is a difference between someone who is “hard to get" and a flat out jerk who doesn't give you the time of day. Stop letting him use you.

You deserve to be with someone who makes you fall asleep every night in the middle of texting him because neither of you want the conversation to end. You deserve someone who plans dates for the two of you. You deserve someone who asks you to hang out before midnight. You deserve someone who wants to spend time with you just as much as you do with them. You deserve someone who insists on paying for your ice cream. You deserve someone who won't deceive you. You deserve someone who is straightforward. You deserve attention. You deserve affection. You deserve a partnership that is mutual, not one-sided. You deserve to be chased.

You are better than 3 a.m. “Hey" texts. You are better than a night spent watching a movie just to fool around. You are better than trying to decode his vague messages. You are better than his shadiness. You are better than mind games. You are better than being ignored.

If you have to chase him, he's not worth it. Don't settle for someone who makes you beg for his attention. If he is genuinely interested in getting to know you, he will put in the effort. A relationship where your feelings are reciprocated is far more rewarding than one where you constantly feel like you have to drag him along.

Change your mentality. Become more independent. Be confident, be bold. Find happiness in being alone. Don't waste your time pathetically chasing after someone who doesn't feel the same, but doesn't have the heart or the courage to tell you so. Your self-confidence and positivity will make you radiant, and eventually, you will attract the kind of guy who is mature enough to not mess with your head.

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Newsflash! It's Time For Everybody To Love Everybody

Come on, people, get it together.

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I, personally, think it's time for everybody to just start loving each other. Now listen, this doesn't mean you need to actually love everyone, but at least accept them. Acceptance is the closest thing we are gonna get to loving each other.

Let me tell you a little something: politics at the moment are very messy. No matter which side it is, it's messy. There is no denying that. If you try to deny that, then good for you, you're not helping anybody. If you really want some change, you need to start being the bigger person. Change isn't about who can yell about something louder or who has the "better" argument, it's about being respectful.

Just because someone has an opposing view does not mean you need to yell at them. Does yelling solve anything ever? Maybe temporarily, like for 2 minutes, but that's about as long as you're gonna get. There's absolutely no need to indirectly say something about certain individuals on social media. Yes, there is freedom of speech, but everybody should keep in mind why they have that right and why they still have it.

I do not understand why it is so hard to be respectful of one another. If someone goes after another person talking about how absolutely terrible it is of them thinking something should be illegal, the person who's being yelled at should respectfully ignore the other individual's disrespectful remarks. If the individual does not stop, then they are not aware that they are making no difference in the world.

What I'm trying to get at here is that in order to love each other, we really need to accept all our differences. If we really want change we need to go right to the sources, not just yell at each other from across the street. If everyone learned to accept each other, life would be a whole lot easier. Is this ever going to happen? Of course not. This is the solution though, whether you think so or not.

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