How Valentine's Day (And Every Other Day, Too) Should Be Celebrated

How Valentine's Day (And Every Other Day, Too) Should Be Celebrated

"Let all that you do be done in love. " — 1 Corinthians 16:14

Valentine's Day has the potential to be such a great holiday. It's a day dedicated to love — what could possibly be better than that?

But somehow, it has been twisted to focus almost solely upon physical and romantic love, when there's so much more to the word ‘love’ than just that.

Valentine’s Day shouldn't just be about going on a date or getting flowers and chocolate (or candy grams if you're in middle or high school).

An entire day dedicated to love should be focused on showing love to our neighbors. Our friends. Our family. Complete strangers. Even our enemies. Valentine's Day should be a day dedicated to showing love to everyone we encounter, expecting nothing in return.

Of course, among other things, it is important to celebrate on Valentine’s Day if you are in a relationship, but why shouldn’t you show your significant other that you love them every single day?

What about the employee taking your order at Starbucks? The bus driver? Your teacher, professor, coworker, or boss? The custodians and housekeepers in buildings we visit every day?

Does anyone ask them how they are doing? Does anyone remind these people that they are loved and appreciated?

The homeless person you see on the street corner, but pretend not to notice. The person you pass walking down the street, who don’t let outsiders see how bad or good their day might truly be, or what they might be struggling with that outsiders can’t see. What about the people that look or act differently from you? Yes, those people. The ones that you are sure you could never relate to or connect with because you know that you are too different from them.

These are the people that need to be shown love. And Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to show love to these people.

And why must treating others with love and kindness be limited to February 14th, and then disappear on February 15th? Why can't we treat every single day as if it is Valentine's Day?

Why can't we show love to our neighbors, and strangers, and enemies every day?

This could be a smile, an act of kindness, or simply asking "How are you?" or “What can I do to help you?”

Valentine's Day should be a day of selflessness - paying attention to others, and giving them the care, support, appreciation and love we all desire and deserve as human beings.

So, if you are reading this, I want to challenge you. Dedicate your Valentine’s Day to giving selfless (and sometimes seemingly undeserved) love to everyone in your life, from friends and family, to enemies and strangers. And let it be the start of a pattern. A lifestyle in which you show grace, mercy, and love to everyone, regardless of their past, their reputation, their struggles, or their actions, simply through acts of kindness and a positive attitude that, at least every once in a while, causes you to take note of the needs of others, no matter how different from yourself a person might seem. And by doing this, you could be a little flicker of the joy and positivity that this world desperately needs.

Just imagine how beautiful the world could be if we treat every day like this perfect picture of how Valentine's Day should be.

Cover Image Credit: Photo by Matt Nelson on Unsplash

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52 Instagram Captions Perfect For Your Next Beach Vacation

Perfect for those beach daze.

Summer is officially in full swing. We are all looking forward to the adventures that await us. A lot of us have been dreaming about the day when we finally get to kick our feet up and relax by the ocean. If you find yourself getting ready for a trip to the beach then read these quotes to help get your in the mood for your vacation. Whether you are looking for an Instagram caption or are just trying to settle a bad case of wanderlust, here are 52 quotes on summer:

1. "Hello summer."

2. "I'm happiest when I'm floating in the ocean."

3. "May you always have a shell in your pocket, and sand in your toes."

4. "Life is better with palm trees."

5. "Sandy toes. Sun-kissed nose."

6. "Balmy nights, pink sunsets, and salty air."

7. "Talk to the sand."

8. "Live in the sunshine. Swim in the sea. Drink the wild air." -Emerson

9. "Everyone should believe in something. I believe I should go to the beach."

10. "Spontaneity is the best kind of adventure."

11. "The ocean is calling and I must go."

12. "Here comes the sun."

13. "If it requires a bikini, my answer is yes."

14. "I'm just a beachy kinda girl."

15. "As free as the ocean..."

16. "As endless as the ocean, as timeless as the tides..."

17. "Life's a beach. Enjoy the waves."

18. "A pineapple a day keeps the worries away."

19. "Let the currents guide your heart."

20. "Happiness comes in waves."

21. "Let's go somewhere where the stars kiss the ocean."

22. "My favorite color is sunset."

23. "I lost my heart to the sea."

24. "Sun, sand, and surf."

25. "Salt in the air. Sand in my hair."

26. "Smell the sea, and feel the sky. Let your soul and spirit fly." -Van Morrison

27. "High tides and good vibes."

28. "Mermaid kisses and starfish wishes."

29. "Stop and smell the ocean."

30. "I'm happy anywhere I can see the ocean."

31. "Tropical state of mind."

32. "Forever chasing the sun."

33. "Girls just wanna have sun."

34. "Some of the best memories are made in flip flops." -Kellie Elmore

35. "Good times and tan lines."

36. "Palm trees, ocean breeze, salty air, sun-kissed hair, endless summer, take me there."

37. "The ocean is calling."

38. "Love you to the beach and back."

39. "Paradise found."

40. "Seas the day."

41. "Live in the sunshine, swim in the sea, drink the wild air..." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

42. "Eat. Beach. Sleep. Repeat."

43. "I never met a sunset I didn't like."

44. "Beach daze always."

45. "Catch me by the sea."

46. "Only worry in the world is the tide gonna reach my chair." -Zac Brown Band

47. "Stay salty."

48. "Done adulating- let's be mermaids."

49. "Find me under the palm trees."

50. "Sea you soon."

51. "Hello sunshine."

52. "Don't mind me... I'm just chasing the sun."

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Stop Missing Summer Because Of Your Terrible Sleeping Patterns

It's a bad habit.


We've all been guilty of a self-indulgent lie-in from time to time, whether we went to bed late the previous night or need a mental health day. But when summer rolls around, it becomes so easy to let the occasional lie-in until noon turns into a horrible habit.

Admittedly, it is nice to put off responsibilities that hang over our shoulders during the school year by staying in bed. It's great to be lazy every once in a while. It can do wonders for your mindset.

However, if you have nothing begging for your attention when the semester is over, that habit can become self-destructive in a way. You stay up past midnight, wake up around noon, dress—and then, the day is nearly over.

It becomes a vicious cycle that is difficult to undo, and if you don't undo it, you're missing out on a large chunk of your summer.

I find this has been happening to me recently. I stay up until two in the morning as I only work a few days a week, and wake up around noon. But in two hours, my sisters finish school, and what have I accomplished? Absolutely nothing!

The self-indulgent lie-in becomes miserable as you see those wasted hours turn to dust, and before you know it, you've already been at home for a month. What do you have to show for it? Days spent waking at noon and barely being productive?

If your sleeping patterns are in your control, I'd advise you to curl up in bed earlier, wake up earlier, and enjoy the world earlier. This is the free time you've been craving all year, and if you're not enjoying it properly, no one else will! The second you let your summer fall out of your control, you become irritated with yourself for letting it happen at all.

There is so much to take advantage of in the early mornings that you're sleeping through! So dress, head outside, and breathe in the summer for what it's worth!

(Also worth noting that sleeping until noon occasionally can be wonderful too, as we all need our relaxing time, but don't get sucked into the habit all over again.)

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