So, you finally met a great guy.
What's comes next?
Expect these uncomfortable feelings and situations:
1. You question him but you don't need to.
You don't question him exactly its more of his actions. Everyone from your past has made you insecure about relationships. You find your self over analyzing small things, like I'm I being to pushy? What if he doesn't want me around all the time? There's other girls out there, he'll find a better girl.
2. Expecting the worst is second nature to you, but he surprises you.
You want to go at this relationship full force, but you don't want to get your hopes up.
3. Every promise he makes, he keeps.
The fact that he follows through on his word makes you uncomfortably happy.
4. There are no games here.
Every text, answered. Every plan, happens. Everything that you are use to doesn't apply here.
5. He knows how bad your past relationship messed you up, and he doesn't repeat it.
You look back on those relationships and how horrible you where treated and you wonder why you have ever tolerated anything less then what your getting right now.
6. You're guarded, he's patient.
You pull away not because your don't like him but as an response to protect yourself. But here, you don't need to.
7. That first fight you think will be the end, but instead he fights for you.
Every fight you've ever known ends with someone leaving, and unkind words being said. But he's meeting you halfway in everything, because he wants you as much as you want him.
8. He sees the worst, but he doesn't run.
Your breakdowns, every wall you hit and comes crumbling down on you. They bitchy moods you develop for reasons you can't explain. But there he is, sitting right next to you holding your hand even though you've told him not to touch you. He comforts you, and it's there he begins to heal you.
9. He forgives you, because you have no reason to apologize.
You've been raised and treated that everything that has happened to you is your fault. It's always been something you've done wrong. So you step lightly, but he teaches you your human you make mistakes. You don't need to be cautious.
10. He overuses 'I love you."
If there's one phrase that makes you cringe its this one. For some odd and uncomfortable reason you find a sense of peace every time you hear him say those words to you. You have no hesitation when it comes to responding to him either, because for the first time you someone is reciprocating everything you feel.
