9 Types Of Friends That Every 20 Something Needs In Their Life

9 Types Of Friends That Every 20 Something Needs In Their Life

We may have the same best friend since we were toddlers, or we may consider family members to be our best friends.

By the time we enter our early adulthood stage in life, we have had a history of different types of friendships. We may have the same best friend since we were toddlers, or we may consider family members to be our best friends. Whatever your friendship history may be, here are the types of friendships everyone needs in their life.

Personally, I have been able to have every single one of the following friends talked about below. I’ve had a diverse group where my friends were not all friends with each other. But I was lucky enough to have them in various parts of my lives. Whether it was through school, work, internships, or other forms of life, here are some friends that I have made throughout my 23 years of life.

1. The mom

Everyone has someone, is that someone, or needs this someone in their life. This 20 something has been acting like a middle-aged woman since they hit their teens. They like to drink their tea before bed, dress modest, and give the best advice in times of need. She makes sure everyone is okay and is usually the sober, responsible one at parties. Whenever you make a mistake she’s the one you go to for confession.

2. The comedian

We all need a funny friend. Whether they tell actual jokes, or just know how to say and do the right things at the right time; this friend can turn your day around within minutes of being in their presence. Their ability to crack a smile out of you creates a positive energy that makes you want to be around them 24/7, and can also make you have a stomach ache from all that laughter.

3. The encyclopedia

This is your Brainiac friend who has been destined for Harvard since she came out of the womb. She’s always correcting you, not necessarily in a know-it-all way, but in an “actually you should know this is the correct answer” type of way. Because they’re your friend they’re sort of your built-in tutor, and can edit your school work. They’ll always be there to discuss the latest bestseller from the New York Times, and you can have some of the best intellectual conversations with them.

4. The potato couch

This is the girl that LOVES staying at home on her weekends. Her time being able to cozy up with a glass of wine and in her comfiest yogas, are the times she cherishes most. And when she gets to spend them with her close friends, it’s a peek into her sanctuary. Aside from this, she is possibly your most relaxed friend who doesn’t get worked up about things. In fact, when you get worked up about something, she’s the first person you can go to, to vent without an annoying devil’s advocate arguing back with your thoughts and opinions.

5. The blunt

Don’t get the wrong idea about this one. It’s your friend who is not afraid to say it like it is. Sometimes we all need this friend to really give us the God’s honest truth without sugar coating it. The world isn’t made of daisies and sunflowers all the time, so sometimes we need that friend who isn’t afraid to give it to us as it is. It can make us stronger, braver, and not afraid to be ourselves. You really must be thankful for them.

6. The good girlfriend

This is the girl that always has a boyfriend. Literally always. Ever since you’ve known her she has never been single. But she knows that “hoes before bros,” is the true saying, and she’ll drop everything she needs to in order to be by your side in a time of need. Her boyfriend understands where her loyalty stands and knows that sometimes his needs come second to yours. That also plays as a beautiful third wheel sort of relationship.

7. The party animal

This is your friend that you can go out with and get as wild as you want. She’s always down for a fun time, and even if it’s a spontaneous, let’s skip studying for our exam tomorrow morning type of thing, she is down to do so. She will pick you up when you’re down and make sure you have the night of your life, even if it’s the typical type of night that you’d normally have.

8. The yellow starburst

This friend is the friend that you cannot remember for the life of you how they came into your life, but here they are and they’re not leaving. And you’re not sad about it. They have been nothing but a good friend. They may not hold the typical personality of the friends that you usually hang around, but that’s what makes them so unique. They’re different, they bring a new characteristic to your life, and you still love them just as much as the others.

9. The best friend

Lastly, we have the best friend. This is not just a title; it is a tier. it is a level that can sometimes take months, even years, to achieve. Sometimes it can literally happen overnight. It just happens. They are your person and you wouldn’t trade them for the world. They are your go to, the person you tell everything to, and the person you committed your life to spending with. Whether you see them every day or it’s a long distance, you have an insane amount of love for them, there is no replacing this best friend. They hold the ultimate friendship title and there is no replacing them once it’s given.

So if you’re anything like me with a diverse set of friendships, you’ve had a few of these. It’s interesting to think what your friends may explain you as, but whatever you are, each of these is special and will contribute positively to anyone’s well being.

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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To The Best Friend Every Girl Should Be Blessed Enough To Have

You definitely deserve all the love.


I have not written this letter, but it has been on my list of "to write" for forever. She keeps asking when I will write one about her and every time I tell her, soon.

Well here it is. The truth on why it took so long? No words seem to do everything justice. No matter how I put them or how I want them to sound, the page always makes them look weird and they always sound lame.

But finally, here it is. Best friend, this one is for you.

First and foremost I will start with a holy cow. We have been best friends for only a short time because who knew your "in school friend" from all those math classes would actually turn into this? We put off hanging out outside of school for years, and finally, after suffering through all that algebra we decided enough was enough.

I wish we had sooner.

I wish I had gotten more time with you before we both moved away to college - but ill take whatever time I get with you because well… you're incredible.

Thank you.

Thank you for finally agreeing to hang out with me.

Thank you for listening to every rant ever - whether it was a paragraph long text, a 2 hour FaceTime call or an hour-long car ride.

Thank you for ordering planners with me and spending nights decorating them with me (we are such losers).

Thank you for letting me become a part of your family.

Thank you for going to Friendly's, IHOP and Target at the most ungodly hours.

Thank you for encouraging me in everything I do, and stopping me from making bad decisions.

Thank you for telling me the truth, despite if it hurt me or not, I know now you will never lie about your feelings towards someone (LOL).

Basically, thank you for everything you have done for me. You have made me a better person and you encourage me to be my best self every single day.

Moving on I want to make it clear how incredibly proud of you I am. I love getting texts from you about your love for your classes, and how you want to be president of this club and president of that. How you help out kids, and how you host events. I love hearing about your major and the classes you are so incredibly excited to take. Watching you be so passionate about what you are doing and becoming makes me want to feel the same way in everything I do.

I hope someday my kids are your students because, in your hands, I know they can change the world.

Last but not least, I love you. And you're stuck with me.


Your forever number one fan

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