I'm shamelessly on Twitter 24/7. I have "liked" tens of thousands of tweets, and my favorite part is finding people who write about how I'm feeling when I don't even know how to explain it myself. A lot of those tweets are about not feeling good enough or not reacting in a positive way to whatever life throws at you. Twitter has thousands of tweets about the best way to approach self-love-- like learning how to be good on your own, recognizing your self-worth, and knowing what to look for in a good relationship. If you're looking for a new mindset in 2019, these 25 tweets can help you think of yourself in a new, loving way.
1. Know how to be good with being alone
I stumbled upon this when I was on youtube: mac miller on relationships/breakups. RIP to such a beautiful soul :(💛 https://t.co/mhglqAH4QP— Pat Mari 🐚 (@Pat Mari 🐚) 1537893823.0
"Sometimes we stick around in these things for the idea of what it once was, of what love is, of that you want love in your life. But at this point in time it has nothing to do with him anymore and everything to do with you. So regardless if he is the love of your life, if he is the one, if he is the end to the Disney movie... Regardless this is your time that you have to grow just with you. You have the opportunity to shit on the world right now." Watch the full video for Mac's amazing insight on thriving when alone. We miss you dude.
2. Remember you are enough
hey a reminder, the right person will come along and you won’t have to do anything to keep them interested for the… https://t.co/MaVEw628Lu— kelsie (@kelsie) 1529363842.0
The right person sees you, and loves you, for you.
3. Be the sun
and that’s that on that! https://t.co/43reDAx1CA— beth mccoll (@beth mccoll) 1538243252.0
You are light and warmth.
4. Pace yourself
Ladies. Please match the energy you receive in your relationships. That doesn't mean that you don't open yourself u… https://t.co/rVEpZ4UVJP— Jaleesa Lashay Diaz 🏁 (@Jaleesa Lashay Diaz 🏁) 1537288716.0
Overextending yourself for people who are only doing the bare minimum is only hurting you.
5. Be patient
after my last relationship I refuse to settle again for anything less than what I deserve and idc how long it takes… https://t.co/X5AAvj1qVg— ethanol🦄 (@ethanol🦄) 1534053554.0
If you have love in yourself you can never be unloved.
6. Be a queen (or king)
#Queen, know your worth. You were a Queen before him. You’ll be a Queen after him. He can’t make or break you. Bein… https://t.co/zFS6mDYLh6— Mrs. Petty (@Mrs. Petty) 1527370726.0
Remember your time is a privilege, not a right.
7. Don't try to change yourself for anyone
at your best you still won't be good enough for the wrong person and at your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person!!— Hailey Bieber (@Hailey Bieber) 1526849275.0
Thank you, Mrs. Bieber.
8. Take your time
stop settling for less than you deserve; it's worth the wait to find someone who's good for you— spooky chani 👻 (@spooky chani 👻) 1486610328.0
Just a little self-promotion, I guess.
9. Love and live well
In the end, only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.— Robby H Hayes (@Robby H Hayes) 1470107993.0
"Let go of things not meant for you."
10. Don't be soft with love
Be aggressive with love!!!!!!! show it! Scream it! Feel it! Go nuts with it. Why not— Shawn Mendes (@Shawn Mendes) 1544908937.0
Shout it from the rooftops. If you love someone, tell them.
11. Put more effort into your goals than "dating"
called my grandma asking for boy advice and she told me “if you have enough time in your schedule to worry about hi… https://t.co/Pv6BQLVuwN— ‧͙⁺˚*･༓☾ sarah☽༓･*˚⁺‧͙ (@‧͙⁺˚*･༓☾ sarah☽༓･*˚⁺‧͙) 1539271631.0
This spring semester I'm taking 5 classes equalling to 18 credits, 2 classes of which are honors. It's perfect for me because it leaves less time for overthinking and more work to do to fill up any free time.
12. Be your own #1 fan
i’m not having a bad day anymore because i remembered that i’m fun and pretty— adam (@adam) 1544727830.0
Everyday look yourself in the mirror and give yourself a compliment.
13. Work for what you want
You got girls who want to live a certain lifestyle and only want it through a man. Me, imma get the penthouse on my… https://t.co/Bbos9WFnty— Bee (@Bee) 1544658913.0
Get that money girl! Work your butt off so that you can say you earned it.
14. Be like Elle Woods
Me talking myself up after my f*ckboy of the week let me down https://t.co/hjytG3ZkhN— Odyssey (@Odyssey) 1544475660.0
Go to Harvard Law School, get that degree, work for that revenge body. Don't let anyone ruin your life.
15. Don't let other people distract you
focus on you. people wake up with different feelings everyday.— Parker Kit Hill (@Parker Kit Hill) 1544343869.0
It sucks that feelings can change overnight, but if you're focused on yourself rather than their varying feelings won't matter as much.
16. Don't be afraid to let things go
i’m actually extremely grateful that some things don’t work out the way i once wanted them to— hσnєч 🖤 (@hσnєч 🖤) 1543419038.0
Just because things go wrong doesn't mean they go bad.
17. Acknowledge when you are where you want to be
Reminder: This is where you dreamed to be. Be thankful where you’re at.— Alyssa Olin (@Alyssa Olin) 1543419258.0
All of the years it took to get here will not go to waste.
18. Be your true self
if you aint livin life goofy you’re doin it wrong— kenzie (@kenzie) 1542055988.0
Whether that's goofy, smart, quiet, bubbly, etc. Be you. You're amazing.
19. Focus on what you can control
I feel a bit of relief, a lot of strength, when I realize that my main job is to control how I behave, not to try to control how im treated.— jenny slate (@jenny slate) 1464006545.0
Find your strength.
20. Give yourself a break
Sometimes you gotta check yourself & be like “chill, you’re actually doing amazing sweetie”— Ciara Johnson (@Ciara Johnson) 1540993552.0
It's okay to not be okay all the time. It's okay to fail. Let yourself fall and pick yourself up when you can.
21. Be proud of yourself
Love the person you’ve become because you worked hard to get to this point.— Kayla Itsines (@Kayla Itsines) 1540683005.0
Love your progress.
22. Be thankful for your progress
i think about where i was one year ago today and i breathe a deep breath. i am not where i want to be, but i am not where i was once was.— Andrea Russett (@Andrea Russett) 1540275319.0
You're doing amazing, sweetie.
23. Don't question your own beauty because of others
"You are beautiful no matter what they say." -Christina Aguilera -Damian from Mean Girls.
24. Know that you will be okay
im ok. im gonna be ok. im gonna live a beautiful life and i’ll get to know beautiful people. i’ll love myself and i’ll be kind & i’ll be ok.— ✰ lil mama lex ✰ (@✰ lil mama lex ✰) 1540140634.0
There's so many new people to meet and so many new things to love. You will be okay.
25. Explore the good "what ifs"
My therapist told me that anxious people have tendency to only explore the scary “what ifs” and challenged me to re… https://t.co/aM0lddvTIZ— Mrs. Grotke (@Mrs. Grotke) 1539898532.0
What ifs don't always have to be scary.
Love yourself, treat yourself well, take care of yourself. You got this.
