I Turned Down A Promotion And I Don't Regret It

I Turned Down A Promotion And I Don't Regret It

If the title doesn't match the pay, walk away.

For the past year, I have been working as a carhop at Sonic. I went from someone who did not know what they were doing to knowing how to do almost everything within the store. I became so accustomed with the restaurant that I went into training for a management position without actually being officially offered the position.

At this point in time, I felt was finally getting recognition for the amount of work I did, compared to that of my coworkers. I would come into every shift to find that I needed to prep everything on top of my regular responsibilities for some time. I established myself as someone whom people would look forward to working with, not only because I was extremely reliable, but also because I managed to click with everyone in the restaurant, from managers to the new people we were training.

This training honestly threw me off my game a bit. I was used to my usual duties and when I was put in a position to practice my management, I felt lost and useless. Although I was used to telling newer people what to do, now I could tell fellow carhops what to do as well. The power of knowing what you are doing to such a level that you can instruct and teach other people felt good. So, the question in mind: Why did I turn down the position?

The main reason I turned down the position was for financial reasons. As much as I wanted to take the position and feel like I finally have the status for the amount of work that I have been doing, I just cannot afford to be a manager. The pay raise takes effect after months, and although I would make more on my paychecks, overall I would make less money for the amount of time that I am working.

Currently, I do not make enough to cover my bills solely on my paychecks. I legitimately need the tips to afford to pay all of my bills. Even though many people do not tip at Sonic, and a majority of people do not even know carhops accept tips, tips significantly help me afford my cost of living.

This decision took me a month to make. I wanted the status of managership and the benefits. I also did not want to lose my tips.

Sometimes planning for the future outweighs the present.

Cover Image Credit: Belinda Hankins Miller

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When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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2. Your day off


3. Clocking in 

I work at noon, but I don't feel like working until 12:30 at least...

4. The table greeting 

Sure, let me just shut up now.

8. Customer service

It's 2019. We're eco-friendly this year.

10. The cliche customers 

We need a thread for this... because there's so many.

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