For The Two People That Have Meant The Most To Me These Past Few Years, Thank You

For The Two People That Have Meant The Most To Me These Past Few Years, Thank You

As Hubert H. Humphrey said, "The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it."

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What's life without a best friend? Not very fun. By definition, a best friend is one's closest and dearest friend.

A true friend is a source of joy, hope, and inspiration for their friend. They are humble and modest. They don't look down upon their friend. They are ideal in every respect. For me, Kasey and Mikayla, y'all are more than that. I may not always show it or say it, but you are.

You both have been there when times are tough and stuck by me, the three of us often times becoming closer because of it. We're best friends because you both get it ( although I'm not entirely sure what "it" is), you both understand me and love me even if it was hard to do so.

We're best friends because you love me even when I'm terrible. It's easy to love someone when they're doing well, it's easy when there's nothing but happiness and good vibes. The real challenge comes when everything is going downhill.

Mikayla

You're one of the few people who know the most about me and I honestly don't know what I would do without you. We could sit in silence and do nothing, and I would still consider it to be fun because of being together. You understand me in a way that I sometimes don't even understand myself and always seem to know what to say when I need it. Sometimes, I feel like we are the same person as how alike we are. Thanks for being you.

Kasey

We may not talk as much as we used to anymore but I know that if I ever need anything you are there to talk and vice versa. I loved that we were able to graduate together and experience all of the great things that came with that. Mikayla and I may have met first but after the two became three and everything was as it should be and you completed our little group. I can't wait to see where you go in life and what you do.


I love all of our inside jokes, numerous sleepovers and everything else that come with our little trio.

It's scary how often you can feel disconnected from people and how someone can betray you in an instant, or fail to understand the words that are coming out of your mouth. Y'all have shown me that while this may happen, you're with me through all the craziness.

As Hubert H. Humphrey said, "The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it."

Thank you both for everything you have done for me, I truly don't know what I would do without either of you.

As your best friend, I'll always pick you up after you fall, but only after I finish laughing. Finally, thank you for loving me the way I am.

Lots of love,

Your best friend

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

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Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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Shockingly, There Is Strength In Being Weak

Abandon the idea that you do not deserve to be taken care of. You do!

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The one challenge in having a brave face, is others never considering there are moments you may not be. It is a beautiful yet complicated gift to be able to provide comfort to others. To be the person your friends and family turns to in times of crisis. Just remember that those who offer help, may need help sometimes too.

Lately, I have been struggling. Having flares of anxiety and repetition of old behaviors, that I am not so proud of. I am so kind to others facing struggle, but I have yet to understand the importance of offering myself the same respect.

Some may suggest therapy, seeking out health professionals. For many that may work. And if that is a tool that works for you, power to you! If you feel comfortable with the process pursue it! For myself, I am not. And I will tell you why.

I have yet to swallow my pride. To understand that the strong fail too. Oh how I despise failing. And I think fear of failure comes from my own personal expectations, to hold it "together". Because if I fall, who will those closest to me lean on? I have strength, therefore if I fall, we all do.

That may sound like an idiotic sentence, and while forming the words I recognize how false a statement it is. However, this is a deep rooted issue for many individuals. And for me this is something I struggle with. Allowing for the world to see my weakness.

One of my best friends, who has recently opened my eyes said to me, " To have the courage to ask for help is not you showing weakness, but strength." It takes a great deal of strength to open up. I find myself suppressing my emotions. Meanwhile, I write weekly about confronting your past. Yet I struggle in the practice I preach.

That is not weakness, yet it is a glimpse of reality. I am thankful for my friend, who noticed a shift within me, to speak up and make sure that I recognize that I am falling. Sometimes you cannot only rely on yourself, and you need to admit that you need help.

My greatest joy is helping others but again I cannot find the generosity in my heart to offer it to myself. I was wrestling with the "why". Why I cannot allow for others to worry about me, why I simply do not want other people to worry about me. It is because that is my job. Then I realized, being a brave individual goes hand in hand with wanting control.

I struggle with allowing for myself to be a mess. To admit when I have lost control of who I am. The issue with a brave face? You rarely let others see you cave. So those around you assume you are stedfast, strong, in control, without a shadow of a doubt ; okay.

I understand not each individual is intuitive. That people miss the signs of when others emotional well beings are compromised. I am grateful for my best friend and her intuitive mind and heart. Recognizing that I have not been completely myself as of late, just an extension.

For those of you , who feel you lack the skill. Those who are not capable of reading between the lines, noticing lack of bravery, please I advise you to check up on the ones who you are usually so sure that are "okay". A simple, "how are you", goes a very long way.

I know I was hoping all day that someone would recognize I was not so myself and ask the question. Thankfully, my best friend did. It is nice to know someone sees you. To understand that you're human, and to remind you that you're human. The brave are allowed to fall.

I note that this also means, the brave need to allow for transparency. Because when you allow for others to see your struggle, it is easier for them to then offer a helping hand. Break your silence, even if it proves that you are not always brave.

Each individual has strengths and weaknesses. My weakness? Being weak. Allowing for myself to strip off the mask of " I am okay", and revealing the " I am not okay".

Again, to be brave is in fact a complicated gift. Being emotionally strong for others, does not mean you do not deserve to also be taken care of. To be offered the same respect of healing and love. Leave behind the idea that those managing others issues, means they can manage their own. Even the bravest of walls can come falling down.

It does not take long to ask a three worded question; " How are you?" I hope those are brave enough to answer honestly.

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