The millennial generation isn't really one for consistency, stability, or old things remaining relevant long after their "time." I, on the other hand think all that is a load of you-know-what. Some of my most favorite things in life have been people, objects, events, and even television shows that I've kept around for years. I went to the same school for 15 years, have had the same best friend for almost 10 years, went to the same two summer camps for seven years and have been utterly obsessed with the tv show, Charmed since I discovered its existence in 2005. I love the old and I love the new and nothing keeps me happier than having both stay important.
I am a creature of habit and although I do love finding new things and people to enjoy, I'm really just hoping that these new experiences and situations will be kept for years to come. Traditions are what keep us grounded and help us know where we come from. They shape who we are and who we are destined to be and as cheesy as that sounds you never really realize how true it is until one tradition comes to an end and another gets its fresh beginning. Everything that's experienced over our lives culminates into who we are. My school gave me spirit, confidence, and a desire to succeed. My best friend has grown with me and given me more comfort and acceptance than you could imagine. My summer camps have given me friends from a whole different world that challenge me in a new way each time we speak. As insane as this sounds, Charmed has been an escape for me forever and it always will be (so much so its symbol is forever on my right hip).
With all of these past traditions in mind, it only makes me that much more excited to continue making more while I strive to keep these alive. It's been hard to maintain a balance between old and new, but I know I'm getting there. I'm working towards having that same spirit for college, making new friends while keeping the old, and finding new outlets and escapes to supplement the old. I will never forget the impact all of these things had on me and continue to have on me everyday and that's why each day I'm looking to start new traditions. I need a sense of stability so when I get lost in all the new things happening I can look back and know that where I came from is still there. Tradition is forever whether it be the summer camp you went to your entire childhood or who you spend your Christmas Eves with. Make all the new memories you want with all the new people you meet, but don't forget the old. That's my plan.
