Toddlers And Libraries

Toddlers And Libraries

And why they go hand in hand.

Okay, maybe not all toddlers belong in libraries and maybe not all libraries are appreciative of toddlers. However, if your local library has a children’s section, you seriously need to get your child in there. And get yourself a library card. Most libraries offer different programs, like story times on certain days of the week, special guests that drop in, different themes for the month, and actually reading programs. If your local library is like mine, they even have puppet shows, puzzles and blocks to entertain the little ones while you browse! Still thinking that toddlers and libraries don’t go together? Keep reading to see what five differences I’ve seen since taking mine to the local library.

First, my kids have a new found appreciation for books. Before, books were just coming through the mail once a month from Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library . The books we have received are all put on a shelf because I can’t trust my children to be alone with them. All the board books they’ve received over the past three years have been torn to shreds. However, since our first visit to the library, the girls have been more careful with books. We still keep our library books in the kitchen away from them when we aren’t reading just as a precautionary measure, but their other books are still intact.

Second, our nightly routine has changed, but for the better. As a person who has trouble sleeping, I almost always fall asleep with the television on. It’s a bad habit. And unfortunately, it’s a bad habit I’ve passed on to our oldest. Not anymore! Every night we read at least one book before saying our prayers and going to sleep. It gives her a pattern of slowing down and getting into the sleepy comatose that reading does to her. Talk about a natural melatonin!

Our youngest has also benefited from visiting the library and getting books. She’s talking better! Before, most everything our two year old would say sounded like “Simoleon”. You know, the language that the Sims speak? I started noticing a difference in her enunciation and sentence structure after our third trip to the library. I also might be a mean parent and started ignoring her when she wasn’t using her words, but her vocabulary has expanded more since we have started reading books more.

Naturally, coming from a single income family, I love cheap! This is a way of saving money on books by simply borrowing books! We have gone through about thirty books in the month that we’ve had a library card! Imagine trying to Amazon all of those books! It adds up! Also, our library also has a huge section where you can buy books from them that are being phased out. Pretty nifty.

Lastly, reading has become this bonding experience between me and our girls. I’ve always been the reader, and it’s nice to see a passion of mine to be passed on. Every night they ask for their story! Sometimes they even ask for a story at nap, and I will almost never turn a chance down. They’ve started seeing past the covers and actually ask me what some of the images in the books mean. And they always say thank you after we finish the book.

After realizing that we ran through all of our books in a matter of a day or two, we now pick up at least ten children books to make it a week. Asking the girls if they‘re ready to go to the library is sometimes a bad idea because it’s like releasing all their joyous energy in a matter of seconds. Seriously, it’s fantastic. While our girls aren’t ready for actual story time yet, they will be one day. Until then, we’ll be visiting our local library at least once a week, playing with puzzles and bringing home books that help expand their horizons one story at a time.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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