To the single girls this Valentine's Day,
Valentine's Day is upon us once again. With this day comes the constant reminders of your singleness. All day long there are cute couples exchanging gifts or posting pictures and you might be wishing you had a Valentine as well. You may be feeling lonely as you see what your friends are doing with their significant others as you enjoy a pint of ice cream and Netflix. This is the way that I felt on Valentine's Day in the past when I didn't have a Valentine. This year, that has changed.
This year as Valentine's Day approaches, instead of focusing on my singleness and lack of love coming from a boy, I focus on the unfailing love that I receive daily from my savior Jesus Christ. This love that comes from Christ is the only unfailing and completely perfect love out there. This love caused God to send Jesus to die for my sins and the sins of the whole world, but the story doesn't stop there. Yes, this love and mercy erased my sins and allows me to be with Jesus, but it does so much more as well.
This love is with me every day for eternity. It supports me and is there for me unconditionally. Jesus is always there to help me through anything, and he remains even when I don't love him as I should. That is truly, unconditional love. With a love like this, how could I not be content with just that? The answer to this question is that the world constantly tells a lie that in order to be happy, you must be dating someone. Don't get me wrong, having a loving and God-centered relationship is amazing and marriage is a great thing, but those things are not what bring joy and fulfillment.
True joy and fulfillment come with a relationship with Jesus Christ. Even though I have been a Christian for most of my life, this fact is something that I only recently believed. It took me going through a hard break up to realize this. It took going through that break up to understand how to lean on Christ and enjoy his love fully. Through doing this, I am fulfilled and filled with joy. The joy that comes from Christ is not something that will be fleeting and can change based on people, but it will be there my whole life.
Even if I do find someone I love and have a Valentine next year, Jesus will be my first and best love. I know that he will always bring me the most joy. No matter where life takes me, Jesus will be my forever Valentine. I pray that you will find in a relationship with Christ the love and joy that I have found in mine.
Love,
Kaylee