To the man who told me I should stop long boarding because “it isn’t feminine” and “girls don’t skateboard:” thank you. Thank you because, not only did I continue to ride around with my friends, but I also realized that even when I am doing seemingly nothing that will affect strangers around me, I still can end up causing controversy. I realized that that is OK too, that I can do what makes me happy and not have to worry about other people approving of all my decisions.

To the doctor who told me I couldn’t get back to playing volleyball within six months of breaking three bones in my leg: thank you...because I did it in four. Thank you for doing your job and telling me the brutal truth, because even though I was angry in the moment, it gave me the motivation I needed to get back into playing shape over the next several months.

To anyone who has ever told me I can’t do anything: thank you. You have provided part of the motivation and drive I needed to prove you wrong, and often to prove myself wrong in the process. You have helped me realize that I am capable of so much more than I expected. You have pushed me to become better and stronger than I was before. You have helped shape me into the person I am today, and for that I am thankful.

So, to anyone who has ever been told they can't do something — take that as motivation, work even harder to accomplish any goal you set your mind to, and prove them wrong.