Congratulations! You did it. You finished high school, and you are ready to move on to college to further your education. College will be fresh and exciting — your first real taste of adulthood and freedom. I am sure everyone is giving you advice right about now. It can be very overwhelming, I know. It seems like just yesterday it was me going through the same thing. So bear with me here while I try to give you a little bit of advice and wisdom.
Leaving behind your high school friends, whether you're the one going away or they are, can be terrifying. You have been with the same people for a long time, and the thought of making new friends terrifies you. Just remember that you are starting a new chapter in your life, and a new chapter means new people in your path. Your old friends may not be right around the corner anymore, but they will still be there too. It may not seem like it now, but it will work out.
Don't over pack and bring too much stuff. Your dorm room is only so big. You might think you need to bring every piece of clothing in your closet. That is not necessary, believe me. You will try to look cute your first few days, give up on that idea and roll into class in shorts and a T-shirt. It happens every time.
Take your classes seriously. Sure, college offers you the opportunity to have fun, but remember the real reason why you’re there. You’re earning a degree, not the title of "beer pong champion." I'm not saying don't have fun, just try to keep your priorities straight. Don't skip classes. Take it from me, after you do it once, it will be easier to do it again with a less guilty conscience. Join study groups and network with others. Don't let yourself become good at procrastinating because before you know it you'll be pulling an all-nighter to finish that essay you've had assigned for two weeks, and study for that exam you've known about all semester.
Once you are settled in, get involved. People will stress this to you a lot, but it is true. It’s the best way to meet new people on campus, especially those with things in common with you. Join Greek life, or join a club or organization that interests you. Many campus organizations allow opportunities to try new and exciting things with little or no prior experience at all. Just don’t allow yourself to be spread too thin; remember to always leave time for studying along having your social life.
Take every opportunity that comes your way. Does your school offer a study abroad program? Go for it. Can you get discounted theater tickets with your student ID? See some shows! Is your school hosting an internship fair or a job-hunting workshop? Attend it. Home football game? Go and cheer on your team! Trust me, you’ll miss having these opportunities once you graduate and have to live in the “real world." It also allows you to meet new people.
Don't worry if you don't seem to have it all figured out in your freshman year. It is OK if you do not graduate in those four years. Take new classes, explore all the different majors out there. Don't be afraid to admit that what you've said you wanted to do with your life since you were 5 years old isn't what you want to do anymore. Change your major, explore new things. Find something you can see yourself doing for the rest of your life and go after it. Like many people say, if you find something you love doing, then you will never work a day in your life.
