First off, you don’t even have the slightest clue of what you’re getting into. They are not just some normal girls that you find and date and fall in love with. They have so many levels to them, and normal is an insult. If you’re not okay with dancing like it’s nobody’s business at 3 in the morning, then just stop now. That’s the big thing. Dancing. Some of them are good, but most of them not so much.
Other than dancing, get ready for long drives in the middle of the night singing to random songs. She’s going to play something off a Disney soundtrack, let her. She'll play mostly 60’s-90’s music, let her. She will scream at the top of her lungs singing and she’s really bad, but let her and don’t laugh. Smile at her. She’s going to pass by random places on the road and tell you about when she was last there, listen to her. The little memories that she thinks of will help you get to know the woman you’re sitting next to.
When you’re out to eat, she’s not afraid to order the big meal and eat like a pig. She’s going to get messy wit her food, but she’s enjoying every bite. Don’t take that away from her by staring at her like you’ve never seen someone eat before. Laugh or smile, but never judge my friends on how they eat.
Now, living with her. So you’re most likely not at that stage yet, but when you are there are some things to look out for. When she wakes up she’s not a cover girl in the morning, but if you can’t love the way she rolls up in the morning and the way she looks then you’re not the one. She’s always there for you, you won’t be alone when you’re living with her. That’s the best thing about my friends, they will always make sure you have a friend around. Oh and She will leave her laundry basket until it piles up before she decides do her laundry.
Yes, she has 7 pairs of the same black leggings.
Another thing that might be a little too deep, be careful with how you tell her how you feel. Her hearts been tampered with, used, and broken. She’s been the girl on the side, the second choice, but if you are in this deep with her you already know she’s a priority. She will push you away because she thinks she doesn’t deserve to be happy or with a boy, but stick around because she does want you. I’ve been on the other end of the phone countless times where she is so confused because nobody seems to be chasing her. I know it’s because she was waiting for you.
She will always stick by you. Let me tell you that these girls are some of the best friends. They will go to extensive lengths to have your back even if you’re wrong. They’re loyal as hell, and you’ll be missing out of some of the greatest love if you let one of them go.
