It’s one thing to mess with me but another thing to mess with my family. That’s a line you never want to cross, because I love my family. And even though we never met, believe me when I tell you I am crazy. I am not afraid of anyone and I will defend my loved ones until I am blue in the face. Here’s a little knowledge for you::

1. You lost a queen. This needs no explanation, you will realize what you had one day.

2. You will never find anyone like her again. Right now you might be thinking ‘amen’. But one day, maybe years from now someone you love is going to give you a taste of your own medicine and that’s when you’ll start to miss her. You’ll never find someone quite as loving and giving. Someone who loves the way you laughed and wanted nothing but the best for you, you threw her away.

3. You’re gonna regret this one day. Unfortunately when that day comes, she will have already gotten over you and the pain you caused her. Not today, not tomorrow, but one day you will hear a song or see a picture and it will bring you back. Meanwhile she is going to be laughing, wondering why she ever cared so much about a guy who cared so little. Don’t worry, I won’t let her forget her worth, because her worth isn’t determined by your inability to see it.

4. She didn’t deserve it. She didn’t deserve the mean words and the nights she spent crying over you. She didn’t deserve to look in the mirror and wonder if she is good enough. Because she is good enough, she is more than good enough. I’m sorry you were too young and immature to see it but that girl is what dreams are made of. She is just as pretty as she is smart and we won’t let her forget that.

5. You messed with the wrong family. I may not be physically stronger than you but I can almost promise, every mean thing you ever said to her, I can be meaner. Every tear she shed over you, I can make you feel worse. You see, I have a masters in bitchy comments with a minor in dirty looks and you don’t intimidate me. You should hope we never cross paths because I don’t know if I'd be able to resist making you feel like to ass hole you are.

6. She’ll be thanking you one day. One day she is going to be laying in bed with the love of her life thanking God you broke her heart. She’s going to find a man who praises her and realizes what he has in front of him, I can’t wait for this day. You will be the reason she is stronger, the reason she is more appreciative of his love, so thanks in advance for that.

7. I won’t let her question herself. I will never allow you the sick pleasure of knowing you broke her, because you didn’t. I won’t let her wonder what she did wrong, because she didn’t do anything wrong. You did. You’re the only one who made a mistake here and it's going to hurt when you’re done numbing it with alcohol and random girls.

So thank you, douche bag, for bringing her one heart break closer to her true love.

And to my sweet baby,

Healing is messy, it isn’t fun and it hurts like a bitch. Let it hurt, feel that pain, memorize it. Then stand back up and tell yourself you never want to feel that way again. Allow yourself to grow from the pain, find strength in it. From this day forward, demand the very best for yourself, because whether you realize it or not you deserve the world baby. Never settle for less than you deserve, find the guy who makes you feel as if you are living in a fairy tale every single day. That man is out there, they really do exist but don’t rush it, sometimes it takes pain to appreciate someone actually treating you right. Everyone deserves to be able to love someone who loves them back. So be thankful that he showed you everything you don’t want in a man. Your Prince Charming will come along, but until then rock that single girl crown with pride and wait for someone truly deserving.