To the girl that is always giving second chances. You are always giving people the benefit of the doubt. You want to believe that they are this amazing person and that they would never do anything to discredit your opinion of them.

You see the best in people. You believe everyone has a kind heart even if they do not show it. Sometimes this get's you into trouble.

People prove you wrong. You realize they are taking advantage of your kindness. Reading this you already are thinking of that person who you gave more chances than they ever deserved. You gave them a chance after they did you wrong.

The second chance became the third, then the fourth. You have people ask you why you do it. Why do you put up with them?

And you start to wonder yourself. You start thinking to yourself that being so generous with chances is a bad thing. But I’m here to tell you it is not. You are constantly going out on a whim for people, only for them to disappoint you.

You start to think that maybe it is you. Maybe you have too high of expectations. Maybe you did not know someone as well as you thought you did. But it is not you.

Do not let anyone tell you that your kindness is your weakness.

Your kindness does not make you weak. Your kindness does not make you a pushover. Because it’s a strength. Your kindness makes you open to the world. Your kindness makes you genuine. Many people don’t see that but one of these days it is going change your life, so be ready.

You will start to see that the people you give one too many chances to become fewer as the days go. The ones that are in your life for the long haul will not need second and third chances.

They will not take advantage of your kindness. They will see your kindness for the strength it is and they will respect you for it.

So do not get down or discouraged when people prove you wrong. Do not let others tell you to stop giving chances. Do not ever stop giving chances.