Timing is not something that is planned out in our lives and sometimes that can be a good thing or it can end up being a terrible thing.

You meet the man of your dreams two weeks before you leave for college or a job hundreds of miles away. You finally become close to the boy you've had a crush on since sixth grade only for them to tell you weeks later that they don't have the same feelings towards you, or you date the guy you think you're going to marry only for them to break up with you a year later because they feel things are getting too serious for them. Whatever the scenario is, falling in love with someone at the wrong time hurts and it doesn't only hurt for a week or for a month, or even a few months.

It can hurt you for years or you may even get to a point where you're happy again, but there's always those days where that person creeps back into your mind. Most people wonder why this happens to them because most of the time when they get their heart broken, they wish they'd never met that person or they want to call it quits on finding love because it hurts and it's hurt badly but something that we all need to face eye to eye is the fact that the people we meet at the wrong time, even though we believed that it was right, are actually the wrong people for us and they were the wrong people for us from the beginning.

The reason the wrong people hurt so bad, though, is because in that very moment of loving them you wanted so badly for them to be the right person so you treated them like the right person. One day the person that is right for you will come along and you'll soon forget about how upset you were at life that you fell in love with who you believed to be the right person but it was the wrong time for you. You will soon forget about timing because the right person will make the world around you feel timeless. So for now if your timing isn't right, just wait because the right time will come. Don't give up on your hope for love because there is no worse way to live life than to live it while giving up on the idea of someone loving you.