Dear Sweet Girl,

You’ve been through it all. Your parents getting a divorce. A family or friend dying. Having a friend stab you in the back. A terrible heartbreak. And much, much more.

The amount of hurt and pain you have been through is unreal especially when you believe someone is that oh so perfect guy for you. You have been through so many heartbreaks when it comes to guys that it’s the only thing you know. You believe you find the one that makes you feel comfortable and you let them in. But it always comes to an end. The stinging pain that hurts so much the first time, keeps on occurring. The pain that you don’t want, comes back and haunts you again. But don’t you worry, I may have an answer.

You may wonder what is wrong with you. But have you ever asked yourself that it may be you that can’t live without the pain. Let me clarify, when you find the perfect guy you will close yourself off because you’re afraid he will destroy you like the other guys. Little by little you try to open up and let him in but you keep on telling yourself that you don’t deserve him. Or he’s too good for you.

But if he makes you laugh at his stupid jokes, holds you when you’re sad, makes you smile every time you look at him or makes you happy, please don’t throw him away. You may think that you don’t deserve him but by the way he treats you, you are the only girl for him. Don’t let that guy slip away because you only know the pain of a heartbreak.

Well don’t get me wrong, we don’t enjoy the pain of a heartbreak. But somewhere deep in our minds, we believe it is what we deserve. And believe me nothing hurts more than letting the one walks away because you’re afraid he will end up hurting you. Because in the end, you are hurting yourself and the pain that you didn’t want, appears. This is not because he wanted to hurt you, it’s because you wanted to hurt yourself.

Believe me as I say. If he sincerely cares and loves you, don’t let him go because you’re afraid. Because if you believe that pain is your only answer it is going to be. Let him in and show you that he is there to stay and that he won’t leave, not all guys are the same. And the pain you thought would last forever and forever will disappear!