To My Mom, Who Taught Me What Strength Is

To My Mom, Who Taught Me What Strength Is

A girl's mom is her first female role model, and mine has shaped me in so many ways.


Mom, I know you have had, to say the least, a challenging few years. I want more than anything for you to know how strong you have been and all that you've taught me. I think the biggest compliment you can give a woman is to say she is strong, women are so often expected to sit idly by and allow the world to happen to them and, recently, you have shown me how to turn that around. You don't allow the world to happen to you, you cause things to happen that improve your own happiness and well-being. I've learned from you that true strength comes in asking for help when you need it and sometimes sacrificing your own needs for those closest to you.

The motivation you show constantly trying to improve yourself is so admirable. Every time I come home I see more positive changes that make you a happier and more complete person. You have taught me that only I can control my own happiness and that I need to constantly find ways to make my life more enjoyable. You work to the same extent to make life better for your daughters, always giving us what we need and that little extra love and support that gets me through a lot of rough days.

It is said that young girls don't see themselves in leadership roles because they don't have a lot of female role models in leadership roles. I am so grateful for all of the amazing things you have accomplished and that you continue to show me the capabilities of women in the workforce, all while being a phenomenal Mom. You encourage me to do anything and everything I could ever dream of, allowing me to make my own decisions and never confining me to expectations. In fact, you stand up for me when people confine me to their expectations of what I should be and I can't thank you enough for it.

You have taught me to prioritize my own well-being, telling me constantly to stop trying to please others when doing so hurts me. The way you support all of my decisions yet consistently try to teach me the right way to approach them has taught me how to handle the world and allowed me to learn from my mistakes. You never reprimand me or tell me I'm doing poorly, instead, you allow me to navigate the world myself and trust that I can make good choices.

You are independent and empowered Mom, and you have more strength than you know. I will never stop learning from you and hoping that I make you proud. You make me so happy to be a part of a world where women like you exist and where mothers encourage their daughters to be everything they are capable of. I love you Mom and I hope you continue to find all the happiness in the world, I believe in you so much!

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21 Things You Say To Your Mom In College, Pretty Much Every Semester

Because sometimes I have no idea what I'm doing.

1. "How do I cook this?"

To be honest, I have no idea what I'm doing.

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2. "How long does it take until this expires?"

At home you would usually be the one to keep track of what's good and what's bad.

3. "How do I get this stain out?"

I need this shirt to wear tomorrow, but it has a really noticeable stain.

4. "I need a pedicure so bad."

My toes need some real work done, but I don't want to pay for it. I hope you picked up on that.

5. Can you venmo me money?


6. "Can you facetime me, but just so I can see the dog?"

I really want to see his cute face.

7. "What did you do today?"

I'm bored and feel out of the loop. Tell me all about what you did at home.

8. "This professor makes me want to fling myself off a building. I might just drop out."

Sometimes I really don't get what is going through my professors' minds.

9. "Can we go on vacation?"

Yeah, I can't "adult" anymore. I need a break.

10. "Hey. I'm bored in class."

Please distract me even though I really probably should be paying attention.

11. "You better have bagels, pizza and pasta ready for me when I come home."

I miss all the good food spots from at home, and I miss having your home cooked meals every night.

12. "What should I take if I have a cough?"

Motrin? Advil? Tylenol? Aleve? All 4?

13. "Can you order this on Amazon Prime for me so I don't have to pay for it?"

I know I could probably find it at a store nearby, but I would really rather not get out of bed if it isn't necessary and I also don't want to spend my own money on it.

14. "I didn't eat today because the food makes me want to vomit, but I'm also too broke to buy food from somewhere else."

It's like eating garbage at this point.

15. "Can you send me a care package?"

Getting mail is exciting and my candy stash is running low.

16. "I don't even want anything for Christmas. I just need money."

Like previously mentioned, my wallet is empty.

17. "What should I pack?"

Everything I've needed has been in my dorm with me for months, and I have no idea what I will and won't need when I leave.

18. "How do I refill my prescription?"

I have no idea how to "adult."

19. "I'm never taking an early class ever again."

If I get stuck with another early class next semester, be prepared for all the complaints.

20. "I hate boys. Make me feel better."

Enough said.

21. "I love you and can't wait to see you!"


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To My Mother, My Best Friend

Even when we had nothing, she somehow made it seem like we did. We didn't always have it easy, but she always made even the darkest of times feel like an adventure.


I've written this letter almost a million times, and words have always failed me. My mother has done absolutely everything for me, and I feel that nothing I could write in a letter could ever come close to all of the sacrifices she has made for me and my siblings.

First of all, she is the greatest mother anyone could ever ask for. Although we haven't always gotten along, she still would do anything for me and I often took that for granted when I was younger.

Even when we had nothing, she somehow made it seem like we did. We didn't always have it easy, but she always made even the darkest of times feel like an adventure.

She's way cooler than I'll ever be, just ask anyone at my high school. The only reason anyone knew who I was was because I was her daughter.

She's given me a legacy to live up to, and everyone says I'm becoming just like her. Which used to scare me as a teenager and now feels like the highest compliment anyone could ever give me.

Even though she didn't always understand me, she showed up to everything I did. From NHS Inductions to soccer games she didn't know anything about, I could always see her in the stands, cheering me on.

I can never thank her enough for scaring off every guy that she somehow knew was not good enough. I wish I would have listened to her more.

She knew all of my fake friends before I did, and wanted nothing more than for me to be happy. Although she did not like many of my friends, she understood that I did and that they were genuine, and were good for me.

She accepts everyone, no matter what. If they mean something to me, they mean something to her, even if she didn't like them personally.

She has always been my biggest supporter, in more ways than one. Always pushing me to be better even if I thought I was the best I could be, with school, sports and anything I ever tried and put effort towards.

She shares everything I've ever written on this website, and always lets me know that she's proud of me. My victories are hers because I wouldn't be who I am today without her.

Being away from her for the first time is one of the hardest experiences I've ever had. I used to come home to her every night and tell her every single detail about my day while she listened and laughed with me.

I never knew how much being away from her would affect me, and I miss her every day. But I know she's still in my corner, supporting me every step of the way as I decide where I will find my place in this world.

And I know she will continue to do so until the day that she can't, no matter what. I love you, momma.

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