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To My Friends – Yes, I've Changed, It's Called Maturing

We can all expect to be the exact same person we were 5 years ago.

Maybelle Cardona
Aug 09, 2017
Concordia University Chicago
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To My Friends – Yes, I've Changed, It's Called Maturing
Dineslav Roydev

Looking back at life I like to think that I am the same person I always have been. I'm cheerful, trustworthy and loyal, so if I feel like I'm the same person, why do so many people tell me I've changed? Well let's be honest here, I haven't changed; I've matured.

Yes, I'm the same person I always have been because all the qualities I had when I was younger are still in me. The only difference is I became more selfish, and let me tell you something – people don't like that at all.

I still joke around with my friends, but I stopped letting them put me down.

I still care about other people, but I stopped putting their needs before my own.

I still am extremely friendly, but I cut off the friends who didn't support me.

I still listen to others, but I realized I can solve all their problems.

I still hang out with my friends, but I don't need to see them every single day.

I've noticed that people don't like when you decide to care about yourself a little more than you used to. They make it seem like I'm being extremely selfish for caring about myself, or wanting to make myself happy rather than them. And the truth to that is, the friends that say that "you've changed" are the ones that will always remain the same.

We shouldn't have to be stuck being the same person our entire lives. We should be able to grow, to care about ourselves more, and live for ourselves when we have to chance. If people don't support that then they probably need to do some maturing for themselves.

Yes, I've changed and I couldn't be happier.

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