To my best friend that I don’t talk to every day,
You know who you are. We talk, weeks and sometimes even months pass, and then we talk again. It’s been like this for a while now, but that’s what I love about our friendship. We don’t have to talk every single day to stay friends. We both need our space, and we both understand that. That’s one reason I love you so much.
It’s actually been a couple months since we’ve last had a full conversation. I see your Instagram and Facebook posts, and you see mine. We like and comment on each other’s stuff. When we see things that remind us of each other, we tag each other in the comments. Just because we don’t text every given moment of every single day doesn’t mean we’re not best friends. That’s not what being best friends is about.
When we were younger, we were inseparable. We spent every day of every summer together, and our parents couldn’t keep us apart. Somewhere along the way though, we both got busy doing other things and hanging out with other people. You went to high school and left me in middle school, then whenever I got to high school you graduated and left me there too. I made new friends, you made new friends — yet we knew at heart we were still best friends.
Every time we talk we pick up right where we left off. We never have a problem catching up and it’s never awkward. Every time our conversations end, we both know it will probably be weeks before we have another full conversation, and we’re both okay with that.
You have your life and I have mine and we’re both super busy. Deep down, we will always have those memories and connections that will keep us best friends. After all, being best friends isn’t defined by how many texts per day you send to each other, or how many hours a week you spend on FaceTime, or how many weekends you spend together. Being best friends simply means being there for each other, day or night. It means knowing each other’s deepest secrets. Being best friends is having experienced some of the toughest and some of the best moments in life together. Being best friends is having a bond that can’t be broken - not even by going months without talking.
Talk to you in a few weeks,
XOXO



















