Everyone knows the uncomfortable feeling of being in a roomful of people you don't know. After moving 15 times in the few years I've been alive, I've picked up on some important skills that have helped me fit in and make friends within mere days of being in a new town.
1) Have a Friendly Demeanor
You wouldn't befriend someone who looks mean, so why would anyone else? In order to make yourself more approachable, be relaxed and try to keep a smile on your face. It will make the people that you socialize with more comfortable and increase the chances of people befriending you.
2) Introduce Yourself
This one might seem really obvious, but you'd be surprised how many people don't introduce themselves when they meet someone new. If you tell someone your name, it leaves a lasting impression and they're less likely to forget you.
3) Ask Questions
You don't have to go over the top and sound like a stalker, but asking people questions when you meet them is an important social skill that is often overlooked. By nature, people love to talk about themselves, so they'll be more fond of you if you give them that opportunity. Listen attentively, smile, and nod.
4) Bond Over Common Grounds
This one relates back to number three. If you hear the person say something you can relate to, let them know! People love people who have things in common with them, because it makes them feel comfortable and understood. Plus, you might find someone who relates to you in ways no one else has before.
5) Make Plans
Whether they're hypothetical or literal, making plans with people you meet will help your social life greatly. People will be more inclined to invite you to social events if you do this. For example, let's say you meet someone new (for the sake of the example, we'll call him Stewart) and bond over your love for Science Fiction movies. You decide that you must go see a Science Fiction movie together. The next week, Stewart gets invited to see Star Trek with a large group. Now, because you two made those plans, Stewart is more likely to invite you to join him. This not only allows you to bond further with Stewart, but also helps you meet more people.
There you have it! Those are five tips that have helped me to make numerous friends quickly, no matter where I am.
