Dogs are some of the sweetest, most innocent creatures on earth. They live to please and will do anything in their power to make their owners happy. I recently became a dog owner, and have found such great happiness in my new pup. There are also some struggles that come with owning a dog. I've only been a dog parent for about a week now, but in that time I have learned some valuable lessons about what it means to take care of a pup. So here are the pieces of advice that I have for other new and future dog owners.
First off, be patient. This is something that I have learned from the minute I became a dog owner. My dog is three years old but had a rough life before coming into mine. So he's scared of humans. When we are near large groups he puts his head in between mine or my significant other's legs and hides. He also doesn't like other dogs. He barks and pulls at the leash near them, making us realize that he probably wasn't socialized enough when he was younger. He also hates being alone and barks whenever we leave him. Which is a problem, since I live in an apartment, and soon he's going to have to be alone for more than just an hour at a time. However, these little things are all going to get better with time. I just have to be patient. So if your new dog has some mild behavior issues, don't worry. Teach them what they're supposed to do and with time, they will get better.
Next, remind them how much you love them. Training a dog also involves love. Give them treats when they do well. Give them kisses when they look up at you. Snuggle them and love them and show them how happy you are to have them in your life. Especially if you adopted a shelter dog, they may not know what true love is. Show them how incredibly happy they make you because that too will help them learn and know that everything will be ok.
Finally, remember to make some time for you. When you first get a dog, it feels like every moment is being spent taking care of them and making sure that they're doing ok in their new home. Remember to take a deep breath and to relax. Don't stress over things, and remember that it's ok to go out for a little bit while they stay in the house. You deserve your own attention just as much as they do. And when you come back, they will be there safe and sound and ready to devour with your love.
Having a dog enters your life is an exciting thing, as you find a new friend. Taking care of a dog comes with its challenges, but in the end, it's so very worth it. You and your dog have a long road of happiness ahead. Love them the whole time.
My new dog Stewie <3
