14 Things Every Ex-Emo Kid Knows Too Well

14 Things Every Ex-Emo Kid Knows Too Well

The love you had for Secondhand Serenade is a 'dirty little secret.'

While listening to Red Jumpsuit Apparatus my housemate and I were reminiscing about our middle school years - the angsty music, skinny jeans, and eyeliner - when she claimed that she never went through an emo phase. I just laughed at this ridiculous claim. As one of the most joyful people you have ever met, I can tell you that my love for the emo scene is alive and well. Here is a collection of moments that every ex-emo kid knows too well.

1. Music Was Culture

I'm the one in the pink flannel...

2. Super Skinny Jeans Were Just Considered ‘Jeans’

You wouldn't be caught DEAD in a pair of boot cuts.

3. Your Arches Are Ruined By Your Converse/Vans Obsession

No one ever told you it would be like this.

4. You Still Have A Crush Crush Crush On Hayley Williams

And/or you wanted to be her.

5. Your Hair Is Damaged By Excessive Straightening and/or Hair Dye

Possibly stemming from your love of Hayley.

6. My Chemical Romance Gave You All The Feels

Still does, tbh.

7. Eyeliner Was The Only Makeup You Needed

And you would not only wear it on your lids, but under your eyes as well.

8. You Can Name Every Member Of Fall Out Boy

And you would FREAK if you met any of them.

10. The Love You Had For Secondhand Serenade Is A Dirty Little Secret

11. Speaking Of…

See what I did there?

12. Don’t Even Get Me Started On Hot Topic

The tees, studded belts, and band bracelets!

13. And Mirror Selfies

Bonus points if you had unnecessary flash and a band tee.

14. But It Was A Time You'll Never Forget

Were you an emo kid? Maybe it wasn't "just a phase" and you still are. Have you just found out that you were oblivious to this part of your life? Let me know in the comments below :-)

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10 Pieces Of Advice From My Parents That Have Helped Me Survive This Thing Called Life

I don't like admitting that they're right, but they've helped me through more than they'll ever know.


As I've entered my 20s and have made it halfway through college, I've learned that life can be hard and challenging at times. Like many kids, when I was growing up, I could care less about what my parent's advice or opinions were. Nine times out of ten, I would do the complete opposite of what they said. Once I got older and actually started listening to their advice and put it into perceptive, I learned that they're right more often than I'd like to admit.

1. Don't take things for granted

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I've learned to cherish what I have because I might not always have it. It's easy to take life itself and many things it involves for granted. They've taught me to take a step back from this crazy life sometimes and be grateful for all that I have.

2. Don't be afraid to put your heart on your sleeve


My parents have taught me that if you feel something, don't be afraid to say it or embrace it. If you love someone, then tell them. Don't be afraid to put your heart out there just because you might get hurt.

3. Be vulnerable

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In life, in relationships, in your work. Take risks, get shot down, and then try again. Being vulnerable is scary yet so powerful.

4. You can never have too many shoes


Otherwise known as it's okay to treat yourself. Life is hard, so take care of you. If that means going on a shopping spree every once in a while, then so be it.

5. You're going to be okay

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Whatever it is you're going through, you're going through it and you're going to come out on the other side. It may seem horrible now, but you'll learn from it and be okay in the end.

6. You have to have friends in life


It's important to have people to lean on, especially on your bad days, and to celebrate with on your good ones. You can't just have you or a significant other to rely on.

7. Never be afraid to share your opinion

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Don't be afraid to put your thoughts and opinions out there because they might be wrong. They could have a huge impact on someone or something.

8. Don't stress over things you have no control over

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Everyone is on their own path, which means everything will work out the way it's supposed to, even if it doesn't make sense right now. Again, you're going to be okay.

9. Happy, healthy, wealthy, wise


My dad always says if you tell yourself every day that you're happy with yourself or your life, you're healthy and strong, you're wealthy in love and surrounded by great people, and you're knowledgable or wise, then you can achieve anything in life.

10.  S*** or get off the pot

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My all-time favorite piece of advice. Making decisions can be hard and scary, especially if the outcome could be getting hurt in the end. So, you either make a decision and roll with it no matter the outcome or you walk away.

Thanks, mom and dad for always being a phone call away when I need it! Just know that your advice and words of wisdom don't go unnoticed. For others, your parents have been on this planet much longer than you have and most likely experienced the same situations that you're dealing with. They don't have all the answers, but they are there to help.

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