Going into college, no one really knows what to expect. Sure, you've heard lots of stories, but everyone's experience is different. Some things are harder for some people than others, and that's OK. You'll make friends in college who will make your great days even better, and most importantly, you'll make friends in college who will make the really bad days a little more bearable. So, here's what I've learned in college so far...
1. If you haven't already, you will have a mental breakdown from stress/homework eventually.
A big difference between high school and college is that it really is up to you how you spend your time - not your parents, not your professors, but you! You have to make the effort and learn to manage your time wisely.
2. You will be homesick at some point.
Just call your mom - it'll be all right.
3. You will be OK without your parents.
You'll learn to do laundry like a champ at midnight...
4. It's OK to have fun in college.
But don't go out drinking every night. Grades in college do matter!
5. You do NOT have to drink if you don't want to.
Just as many people don't drink alcohol as those who do.
6. You will probably question if you're at the right school at some point.
I myself have wondered if I went to the right school a couple of times, but you'll remember why you chose your dream school in the first place.
7. It's OK to be an undeclared major.
This is especially true for the first year of college, at least. Most people land a job that isn't related to their major anyways.
8. Don't sit in your dorm room all the time doing work.
Go out with your friends and make memories to last you a lifetime.
9. Once again, grades do matter!
Messing around and not doing your work could come between you and your diploma if you're not vigilant.
10. If you're in a relationship, do not feel obligated to end it just because you're about to go to college.
If both of you are willing to make the effort, then the two of you will be just fine!
11. Most importantly, though, don't lose yourself.
Yes, college will change you (some for the good, some not so much), but you shouldn't throw away your morals, values, or personality in this new environment you're being exposed to. Surround yourself with people that push you to be a better person and have goals after college.
12. Always use the buddy system!
Take someone with you everywhere you go, especially if it's night time! It's much safer and that's what is important.