How many bases do you have to blow through to get a guy to notice you? Honestly the answer should be none. It’s sucky but I also understand it. We live this exhilaratingly, fast paced life and college is supposed to be a time for exploration. Yeah maybe you don’t want a boyfriend or girlfriend, and that’s completely logical because who has time for another human when you barely make it to class on time and times are changing and all we need now apparently is a “hey r u up” text to make it known that "so and so" is into you. I’m sorry but I’m over it.
But what happens now is you spend five or so months knowing this person and suddenly it comes to a screeching halt. It's over, it’s done, and you were used, maybe as an ego boost, maybe you were just convenient. Tyra Banks says it best “one day you’re in, the next day you’re out.”
I swear it’s not all boys, I know some really great guys and I also know some really shitty ones that would do just about anything for a quick lay and an ego boost.
Stop trying to get Brad from Theta Chai Latte to notice you. If he wanted to text you, he would have already and as bad as that sounds, it’s true. You need to stop making excuses for people that don’t care about your existence. Stop reaching out to someone who forgets about you because that isn’t how this is supposed to go. You deserve more because you are more.
Never blame yourself because the guy you like doesn’t like you back. Never feel like you’re not enough, never let someone make you feel inferior; because you’re not. Your purpose on earth isn’t to make other people happy, you come first, and you don’t owe anyone anything, especially not a stupid boy who only texts you when it’s convenient for him. You’re not here to show your self-worth to a guy who will forget your name by next week. You owe him nothing and if he says otherwise, he’s a shitty human and you my friend, deserve a hell of a lot more than a late night booty call.
