To The Man Who Wants The Perfect Girl
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To The Man Who Wants The Perfect Girl

"The truth is men, is we aren't meant to be perfect."

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To The Man Who Wants The Perfect Girl
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Man, do men seem to have the weirdest reason for breaking up with girls. A big reason will probably have to do with the fact that you're not an already perfectly finished art piece. They don't seem to want the cracks and bumps in your sculpture. You're either perfect or not worth it.

To the man who wants the perfect girl. Good luck, because you aren't going to find her. The fact that you even think there's a perfect girl out there, almost makes me laugh out loud. I think one of the greatest things about a girl is we aren't perfect.

You have the girls with depression, some with dad problems, some girls have a hard time trusting people even if you give them reasons to. Then you have the girls who are clumsy, maybe the ones who's snore way to loud, then a couple who are kind of poor. You've got the girls who are sensitive, bite their nails, are shy. You've got girls who just aren't perfect.

To the man who wants the perfect girl, we have baggage. When you find us, we aren't going to be perfect, better yet we are probably going to be broken from the last guy who wanted perfect and couldn't find it within us.

You're going to find a long bumpy road within them where they were dropped and broken. You'll find glue and tape holding us together. You'll find a girl who's maybe more country then you want, or more city then you want. A girl with a wall built in front of her. You'll find a girl who is scared. One who's living pay check to pay check, one with a child who wasn't left to fend alone.

To the man who wants the perfect girl, don't go looking for perfect, let me stop you now, because you won't ever find her. What you'll find is a girl who you can grow with and become perfectly imperfect with. One who's snoring becomes your favorite thing to hear at night, the one who's broken past makes her who she is today.

The truth is men, is we aren't meant to be perfect! Crazy right? We aren't meant to break and grow stronger, love every imperfect part of us and not be selfish and love what we have and what we can give you. We will try to give you the world, but trust that it won't be perfect, because even the worlds not perfect.

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