People You Don't Know

The Impact Of A Stranger

Why the people we only meet once in our lives are important


I was browsing through YouTube last night when I came across a video called "Who is one stranger that you remember?" so I decided to watch it to see if it was any good. The video, posted by Thoraya Maronesy (check out her channel, her videos are uplifting and heartbreaking all at once), gave a fascinating look inside the minds of random strangers being asked to recall a random stranger from their own life.

The stories varied from someone receiving a kind compliment on the street to a woman describing a sunset to a young blind girl. What I found to be the most interesting thing about the whole video was how overwhelmingly positive most of the responses were. In a society that tends to thrive on tearing other people down, it was heartwarming to hear the stories that people shared about people that they didn't even know, and would never see again. When I scrolled through the comment section I was pleased to find even more stories from strangers about strangers, almost all of which ended with the sentiment of "I hope they're doing well wherever they are."

Of course, I could turn this into a piece about how you never know what people are going through and one simple smile or a kind word could turn their day around, which is true; spreading kindness is something that I will always do my best to praise and promote.

Instead, I will share this: I sent the video to my friend and he responded by asking me who one stranger that I remember is. I told him that none came to mind at the moment (somehow every stranger I have ever encountered had disappeared to hide in the darkest crevasses of my memory).

I countered the question, to which I got two different stories of two different strangers. I thought, "Wow, imagine having such an impact on someone that they share that story with other people and you don't even know it." But the next thought that entered my brain was this: all my favorite strangers have become my friends. It's super cliche and cheesy, but it's the truth - the strangers that have had the biggest impact on me have all become pivotal people in my life, lifting me up when I need them and giving me endless love and support.

Everyone is a stranger until you get to know them. Even our families are strangers to us at one point. So maybe the reason I have a hard time remembering a stranger that impacted me that I never saw again is that I chose to keep the most influential strangers in my life. This is not to say that I don't come across random people who make my day a little bit brighter - just the other night the guy working the Taco Bell drive-thru made my night by coming up with a new name for every item we ordered, just to add a little excitement to a process that would otherwise be uneventful. Small things like that can make a big difference for even just one person.

I guess my whole point is that while it's easy to feel like the things we do and say don't matter or aren't important, videos like Thoraya's can help remind us that we do have impacts on people, whether they be positive or negative, and we also have so many people in our lives, who aren't strangers anymore, who we have such a terrific impact on. Just keep that in mind as a small reminder to send love out into the world and you will receive love, and if you haven't yet, go try to make someone's day, because you never know who may need a kind word or a smile. And who knows, maybe the next stranger you meet will become an important part of your life.

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20 Fun Facts To Use When Introducing Yourself

As we embark on the semester, we are put on the spot in order to share interesting details about ourselves. This article discloses possible fun facts to tell others!

After experiencing my first week of classes, I have learned that every student needs a handy-dandy list of fun facts about themselves to tell other people. Many professors use the first couple of classes to learn about their students, so you may need to think about who you are and how you want to introduce yourself to your professor and classmates. We all have that one go-to interesting fact about ourselves, but sometimes you just have to mix it up!

1. My favorite hobby is...

What do you do in your free time? Personally, I love to stay active! I am a competitive Latin dancer and enjoy teaching and taking Zumba classes, going to the gym, and hiking.

2. I love...

Is there something, someone, or somewhere that you love? What makes your heart ache? What do you miss when it's gone? I can say that I love my friends because I feel my most confident when I'm surrounded by those who love and support me.

3. I look up to...

Is there someone you adore? Who mesmerizes you? Who do you wish to learn from? After watching "A Ballerina's Tale," I discovered Misty Copeland. In 2015 she became the first African American ballet dancer to become the Female Principal Dancer at American Ballet Theatre. Her passion, grace, and strength continuously motivate me to better myself as an athlete and an individual.

4. This art speaks to me because...

Coco Chanel said, "In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different." This encourages me to always follow my heart no matter what. I will never follow society's standards and norms because they do not define me. Chanel's saying definitely influences my character and lifestyle.

5. A funny and/or embarrassing memory of me is...

When you make others laugh they want to spend time and make memories with you! Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself. You will come off as down to earth, easy-going, and loyal.

6. My siblings or lack thereof influenced me by...

I can go on and on about my brother, who is 10 years older than I. We have opposite personalities and despite the age gap, we're quite close.

7. My pet(s) are my life because...

Only sad people don't like hearing about furry creatures, even if your pets are slimy and slithering creatures all human beings enjoy hearing pet tales!

8. I'm afraid of...

Your personality can be revealed by your likes and dislikes, including the things that you fear. I am terrified of change and the unknown, hence, the future is an anxiety-inducing topic to discuss for me.

9. I am the way I am because...

What have you gone through in life that has shaped you into who you are today? Remember to be open minded and allow yourself to open up to your peers. You may be surprised by how others respond and/or what others have endured as well.

10. The most unusual item that can be found in your dorm...

This is a fun fact about yourself that can easily liven up an awkward conversation. Think about your quirks and differences! One item I have in my dorm is my teddy bear, Peter, whom I like to joke is my boyfriend.

11. My dream job is...

In college, "What's your major?" is a widespread question. Nonetheless, skip the boring statement of "I'm majoring in..." and go in depth on what your dream job is (hopefully your major factors in to this dream of yours).

12. My hidden talents are...

Angelina Jolie is a knife thrower. Kendall Jenner can produce bird noises. Amanda Seyfried can crochet and knit. Is there anything special you can do? Some people have rare and unique talents, maybe you can think of some hidden talents of your own!

13. My guilty pleasure is...

I will say it a million times: don't be shy when introducing yourself to new people! I'll start by divulging my guilty pleasure: Youtube's family vlogging channel, "OKBaby"!

Check them out:

14. Some activities on my bucket list are...

This is an easy way to grab people's attention and find others with similar desires as you. Be an adventurer! Go out of your comfort zone!

15. Talk about your best friend...

How would your best friend describe you? What do you love to do with your best friend?

16. Talk about an accomplishment of yours...

You are incredible and have achieved so much! Reveal something that you are proud of — show off a little!

17. This one time at my job...

Bosses breathing down your neck. Curious coworkers asking personal questions. Cursing customers who never leave you alone. Your job can be filled with tons of hilarious situations that can easily entertain a crowd.

18. During the summer...

Any scars with stories? Any summer flings? Any lessons learned from the tanning too long? Now that summer is over, disclose memories that can leave positive impressions on others.

19. I volunteer at...

Do you do any community service? Share a funny moment while you were volunteering. What did you learn while there? Would you continue?

20. [blank] is meaningful to me because...

What do you appreciate in life? What brightens your day? What makes you fall in love? What does someone have to do to make you smile?

Finally, remember to be outgoing! Reveal that three-mile smile and open your arms to learning about others. Spread smiles, love, and happiness.

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Dear teacher that I used to love,

I used to love going to your classes in elementary school.

I used to love the after school activities that you would have.

I used to love coming over spending the night (since I became friends with your daughter).

I loved all the new things everyone introduced me to.

I loved how you would let me stay for a week because the snow wouldn't stop.

But somehow that all began to change...due to one little incident.

It was a misunderstanding, but how it was dealt with at the beginning was not right.

Calling out a high schooler when your the adult also is not the right way

Calling them out on social media is never the right way to deal with things, no matter the situation.

It hurt me that you felt that way about me, and the things that were said on that post hurt.

So when you apologized to me one day about it, and then asking me to come and join an activity like nothing ever happened.

At that time I couldn't forgive because I was still hurt and angry by everything that happened.

From that post it told me how you felt about me, over something that was miscommunicated. But because we had slightly different views on things that worsened things in my opinion.

Sure did I comment on somethings saying my opinion on things? Yes. But it was just to bring in information that most people didn't fully understand, not to bring you down.

Now today if I see you in public sometimes we say hi, but not so much anymore.

I see on social media that you comment on other students accomplishments in school or in life.

But whenever I post something about my life, or an article I get nothing. And honestly, it hurts a lot.

I would think I would at least get a like, but honestly I feel that anything I post doesn't even get looked at.

I have moved passed that post. The hurt is still there though.


Your former elementary school student

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