To The One Who Stayed

To The One Who Stayed

Here's to a friendship that is unlike any other

It's hard to imagine what life would be like without you after all these years. The highs wouldn't have been nearly as high, and the lows would have been a whole lot lower.

It's hard to come by loyalty these days. People live on impulse, and they make decisions that they don't necessarily think through completely- decisions that could really hurt someone else in the long run.

People are so concerned with what's happening next that their attention usually drifts from the "here and now" to the "look what could be" and often they don't recognize or appreciate what's right in front of them.

Girls can be nasty to one another. I've had friends come and go, and I've been really hurt by people in my past. Between the backstabbing, the boyfriend stealing, the trash talking and the using, it makes it hard to trust anyone.

But if there's one person I can trust with my whole life, it's you.

You've never made me feel like I had to act any type of way to fit in or impress you. You've always encouraged me to be who I fully am. When girls had something to say about me, you were the first to defend me. When guys took advantage of me, you stood up for me and never backed down. You would defend me till my death, I have no doubt about it. I have never questioned who's side you were on, and I have never felt like I had to compete with anyone else for the title of your "best friend".

"Best friend" isn't really the best words to describe you, though. Not when your phone number is in all of my sibling's phones. Not when my mom would call your phone repeatedly when I was missing at 2 am back in the eleventh grade. Not when you used to pick me up when my parents were fighting when I was younger or when you're invited to family Christmas or when my mom refers to you as her own child.

You are so much more than a best friend. You've provided a safe place for me- a place to hide away from the ugly world. Arms to crash into, a shoulder to bury my tear-filled eyes, and a listening ear to fill with all sorts of nonsense worrying (that you try to convince me is normal but I know I'm irrational sometimes). You've been understanding when I just needed connection and attention- our friendship is rooted in the connection we have between our souls, not necessarily just common interests. You've listened when no one else would, and you've trusted me with your life secrets that no one else knows.

And most importantly, you've been consistency in my ever changing life. You stayed. Through the ups and the downs. You stayed.

You've been there since we were young and reckless, staying out late and causing trouble. You've helped me grow up and mature and realize my potential. You've made the highs, higher and the lows far less low. You are irreplaceable, and you occupy a place in my heart that is completely untouchable. You are my sister, and thankful doesn't begin to describe how I feel having you.

But it's a good place to start.

Cover Image Credit: Jennifer VerMeulen

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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