Yes, I will say it. It is not easy being in college and getting married and I completely understand what you are going through. I am a nursing student and getting married October of 2018. I have to say you will find the way to balance everything from cleaning house, cooking dinner, and studying. No by no means is it easy but life is all a juggling act.
1. Study
Your husband or husband to be will just have to understand that yes you do love him and want to spend time with him but you studying means your not only bettering your self but also your life together. Once all this crazy amount of money is spent on tuition and textbooks it gets better from there. You studying means you will have that degree in your hand and you will have the income to support each other.
2. Wedding planning
Have the wedding you always wanted. Plan little by little and understand that on your big day it doesn't matter if it all falls apart at least your married and have something good to laugh about later down the road. Details are just details make sure you love the big things, your venue, dress, flowers, and food.
3. Cleaning that house
Don't stress when the dishes have not been washed they will still be there when you get ready to do them. Trust me they never run away I've tried to get them to. Floors can be swept and moped later they will just be dirty again in an hour. Its okay to eat leftovers or cook something quick he will survive. Now when it comes to laundry yes wash all those clothes but hey if you know whats clean and whats dirty does it really matter if they are in a hamper because trust me the laundry fairy never shows up.
4. School
Yes everyone at school says your crazy or too young to be getting married but if you have found the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with its time to get married whenever you're ready. Just because you're in school doesn't mean that you can't be a wife. Your plans are your plans and that's okay being married doesn't mean you can't go out, it just means you have your loving other half with you or you may end up going home earlier than everyone else.
Just breathe they only judge because they don't know what they want yet. Weddings are weddings and we each have a different road we are supposed to take.
From the Bride to be and Nursing student.
