Thank You for Being You

Thank You for Being You

I am forever grateful to not only know you, but also call you my best friends.

In my twenty years there have been many people who have come and gone, some quickly and some after an extended time. Of course it can hurt and sometimes you’ll miss them but other you have to believe there are much greater things coming. I read once that “The best relationship is the one you never saw coming” and I can say that is completely true. After having a rough first semester, to put it lightly, I felt really alone at school, until my second semester rolled around. While I was lucky enough to come to college with my best friend from home and a few other close friends from high school, we had different roommates and friend groups, but luckily we all found our way back together, and had also met some amazing new people.

It’s crazy to think back now on that awful first semester, because with the friend group I have now I don’t think I ever have to worry about feeling that way again. Friendship is about being there through the good and bad and these girls have definitely been that for me. I don’t think I have ever laughed, or cried because I was laughing as much as I have since I became close with these girls. It’s such an amazing feeling knowing that I can go to each one of them with anything at anytime of the day and they will always be there.

Having this group of girls in my life is a huge part of the reason I am where I am today and why I have ended up loving college, and I know they probably don’t even know it. So what I’m really trying to get at here is Thank You.

Thank you for always being there, day and night no matter what. There have been countless times where I have a problem and you’re the first people I come to and somehow we almost always come up with a solution or you manage to make me feel better about the situation.

Thank you for supporting me. While we might not always agree on what is right or wrong, you always support the decisions I make and stand by me. It’s one of the best feelings knowing that even though sometimes I might not like it, you guys will be honest with me and are always have my best interest in mind.

Thank you for being the biggest and best part of my college years. I couldn’t imagine looking back years from now on college and thinking of anyone but you guys, and I wouldn’t want to. I can’t wait to tell our kids about all of our crazy memories or hear the speeches we make at each other’s weddings.

But most importantly, Thank you for being you. I know I don’t tell you guys enough, but I do love and appreciate everything you guys do for me. You are without a doubt the greatest friends I’ve ever had and I can’t even begin to imagine what my life would be like without you. I am forever grateful to not only know you, but also call you my best friends.

Love you forever!

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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