Siblings know us in our best and worst times in our lives. Sometimes we are close and sometimes are relationships are skewed by all of the things around us. We think back to when we were kids and take a close look at the memories that we made. We realize how we truly wish we could go back in time and spend all that time with them again. They toop a major part in shaping me into the person I am today.
Siblings,
Today, I look back at the moments we have had together and the many memories that we have made. I remember spending every moment with you. Playing outside with friends and the days at the pool may seem little to you, but I believe that these moments brought us together in the smallest way. I remember the arguments like they were yesterday. We argued over what to fix for dinner or ifI could go with you and friends. You took charge of me even when you didn't need to. You may not believe this, but that moment changed me. I realized you cared about me in ways that friends and others wouldn't. You used to pick me up at the bus stop to make sure I got home safely. You sat at the ER with me many many times for injuries from chest scars that could have massively injured me to broken bones. I remember the many nights you sat with me and held me close as I cried. The ice packs you brought me for my multiple sprained ankles. Bringing me pain medicine when I broke my wrist and mom wouldn't let me get up due to the nausea. I remember the days that summer that you took time away from your friends to sit with me in the kiddy pool because I wasn't allowed to go swimming. I remember the day that I had prom and you were right there taking pictures and helping me get ready. I remember the moment that both my nephew and niece were born and the joy that filled me knowing that I was an aunt to your little ones. I remember the day my brother walked down the aisle to his beautiful bride and the sister and nephew I gained. I remember the family vacations to the mountains and nights in the hot tub after mom went to sleep. I remember the day I found out my sister was moving to Virginia. I was excited to have my best friend back in my daily life. I remember the day that I graduated high school and all of the support that I received from you. I remember every struggle that I had on the way off to college and I had you beside me every moment. I remember wanting to quit and you all telling me to keep pushing. I remember the day that my sister told me she was pregnant for the second time with my nephew and the glee that once again ran across my face. I remember the moment that I told you how much I was going to change my ways and become an upstanding citizen. I remember the moment that I told you about my plans after graduation and the celebratory party that I wanted. I look forward to walking that stage and running into your arms afterwards. I remember the moment you told me that my nephew was born and the complications and the pit inside of my stomach. I remember wanting to run home 2 hours away and show you my support.
Brother and sisters,
Even after all of the memories we have built, I want more. My brother, you took the place of protector. You shewed people away that didn't belong in my life. You took charge of me because dad wasn't there. You showed me who to trust and what a real man should be. You gave me the one of the greatest gifts in the world, my nephews and sister. You are my rock even though we fight. I'll love you forever. My sisters, You have been my best friend since forever or when I met you. You have pushed me to my limits of tears and joy. You have always been here to support me along the way in every way. You have made me smile more than anyone else and I look forward to every day that I see and spend time with you.
Families may fight but all things come through tough times. At the end of the day we sit down at a table and eat together. I'd give my life for you and I sometimes want to strangle you myself. However, I will always love you. You have made more differences in my life than you know. You showed me how to grow up and how to be independent. You showed me what it's like to be loved and hated at the same time. Guess that's what I get for being the baby. Thank you for being my role model since the day I was born and all of the things that you have done for me. All the tears shed, filled me with joy for today. You blessed me more than you know
Today, thank your family no matter the struggle because one day they may not be there.
I love my siblings today and everyday. Despite the struggle and triumphs in our life, we have each other to fall back on at the end of the day. That;s what makes family!
From the bottom of my heart,
Nicole M. Nigro
