In this life we get one shot for happiness. We all know the expression by drake (YOLO), so why don't we live like it every moment? (That's "you only live once" for those few who haven't heard the term before)

Well, for one it would be very difficult, to drop everything and do what you've always wanted to is easier said than done. And what does it mean to live this way?

Especially if we've gotten hurt in the past, taking a risk can be (and often is) a terrifying thing.

This letter is not only to those who've been hurt by past relationships, but by anyone or anything in life. Recently in my life I've begun listening to an artist named Kacey Musgraves. And of the lessons to be learned from her (of which there are many), I've come to believe the most important is to "follow your arrow", as she puts it. This, I interpret, means to follow what your heart desires. Follow what your heart tells you, and listen most of all to yourself.

Another quote that does work is "Let your heart tell you what you want and let your mind figure out how to get it."

This week I encourage those young and old to listen, and if there's something you've been wanting to do for a while but are scared of the consequences consider this: the thing that will make you the most happiest is always going to be the thing you want to do, not what others want of you. And the same goes for being yourself obviously.

Of the biggest mistakes is not to take risks because we don't learn anything. So good luck out there, follow your heart and just remember everything will eventually work out.