To my college supervisor,

When I first met you at the beginning of the school year, I was somewhat unsure of myself. I was entering one of the hardest jobs of my college career - being a Resident Assistant - and I had no idea what I was doing.

All I knew was that you were going to be my supervisor for the year and that I would have to report to you. I didn’t really know how to interact with you because you intimidated me, so I kept my guard up and acted as professional as I could.

As the year progressed, I realized I had no reason to feel intimidated because you were on my side. Even though you were my boss, we were a team. I realized you, along with the rest of staff, worked alongside each student to help them succeed at their jobs. You were there to help support us with whatever we needed.

There were times when I felt frustrated, though, because you had no problem challenging any of my ideas. It wasn’t out of spite, but because you wanted to help me critically think better. You wanted me to see the issues in what I was presenting to you and the ways in which things could go wrong.

During those moments, I absolutely hated what you were saying because I felt like I couldn’t please you. Looking back, though, I realize you were just helping me grow. For that, I thank you.

There were other times, though, when I would come into your office and shut the door because I needed to talk to someone, and you just happened to be the closest person. Whether I would cry or vent, you were always supportive of what I would say. You had no problem talking with me about whatever was bothering me that day. I can't thank you enough for that because not many people put up with me and my issues.

I also have to thank you for putting up with the (many) mistakes I made in my job. Instead of getting angry at me like other supervisors would do, you talked with me about what I did wrong and how I could improve. You turned mistakes into learning experiences, and it allowed me to understand how I could be better in the future.

You were also patient with me when I made the same mistake one too many times and always forgave me, even when I couldn’t forgive myself. When I did make big mistakes, though, you always had my back. I appreciated that because I felt your support when things got out of hand.

As the year ends, I realize how much I have to thank you for and so many things remain unsaid. Overall, though, I realize that by working with you I have become a better person. You have helped mold me into someone who is more confident in herself, someone who is sure of what actions need to be taken during various situations.

I realize how lucky I was to have you as my supervisor. You have changed me into a better person, and I can't thank you enough for that. I know you will have the same impact on future students to come.