"That girl isn't pretty enough to be with that guy."

"She's so dumb she couldn't even get into community college."

"What does she have that I don't?"

I'm sure most, if not all of us, have heard something similar to this come out of another's mouth, in harsh ways and more than once. I'm here to help break up this monstrosity.

Can't we all just get along?

Yeah, I didn't think so. I thought it was a good thought while it lasted. Because we all know that not all girls will get along. It's universally impossible.

Of course it's apparent that each female is different physically, emotionally, and more importantly psychologically. Our genetics are some of the characteristics that separate us. We can't help what we look like naturally when we are born. It's honestly our parents fault. Our fathers for picking whether we are a girl or boy, and the mother feeding us with all the cravings we gave her in the womb.

I will be furious if I see or hear a girl making fun of another girl for something she didn't have any control over. Each of us are beautiful in our own way. We all need to learn to accept that sooner or later. If you happen to see someone who know but aren't friends with, walking around with a guy holding hands and she has the biggest smile on her face, leave them alone. The hottest guy in your high school or college wants to be with someone exactly like them, but nothing like you. It will be hard to shallow the fact or imagine it, but that's how life is sometimes. You have to let it go and be okay with it.

All of us are smart in our ways as well. The girl that you said was too stupid that she couldn't be able to get into a community college, she is now working on her PhD while working three jobs to keep up with her rent, car payment, and saving up for her school loans. Take a look at your life and see what you can do better. Don't judge someone just because of how they act with their friends and family while they aren't at school. It may be a slap in the face for some of those with what you end up finding.

I swear on everything that is holy if I see one more post on Facebook about how wonders what she doesn't have that another girl has. They find out that someone's boyfriend spoiled them just because, they got a new car, or because they have a more connected home life than you do. That doesn't give you any justification to try and tear them down, or be jealous over what they have. If you want something like theirs then you have to fight for it yourself.

So, can we all just band together and cut the gossip that keeps ripping friendships apart? Can we get through the massive gap of personalities and suck it up and put on our big girl pants for humanities sake. A girl can dream, right?