There’s the girl who is shy, introverted, quiet and a listener. There’s also the girl who is spontaneous, full of life, extroverted and charismatic. There’s another girl who is expressive, powerful and full of persistence. Then there’s the girl who is full of firepower, confidence, unafraid to speak her mind and unapologetically sassy.
The unapologetically sassy girl has traits that every girl should be unafraid to portray. She’s different from everyone else, but in the best possible way. Some are unable to understand her, but this explains why it is perfectly OK to be unapologetically sassy.
She thrives with confidence. Independence is her greatest attribute, and she will never need or ask for anyone’s reassurance. The way she carries herself in public is with grace, sophistication and her head held high. While her confidence can be intimidating, she knows that the best way to achieve confidence is to bring others up with you, rather than tearing them down.
Honesty is her best policy. Integrity is something she always strives to achieve, and she expects it from everyone else as well. Honesty strengthens her character, making each day of living simpler because she has nothing to hide. She’s honest with her loved ones and herself.
She rarely apologizes. She will apologize for her role in a negative event, but that is pretty much it. She won’t apologize for speaking her opinion. She will not apologize for asking too many questions or for bothering you. She knows her worth and will use it to her full capacity. You will never hear an apology from a lack of self-confidence, even in her most troubling times. Unless if she truly did something wrong, she will not apologize for it.
She has a voice. She’s never afraid to stand up for what is right. Her family and friends are the most important things in her life, and she will defend them with every inch of her body and soul. She’s compassionate about equal rights and is never afraid to speak her mind. She knows the difference between right and wrong very well, and she isn’t afraid to call anyone out when there is a confusion between the two.
She is strong. She’s been through a lot. She’s been emotionally broken through lost friendships, relationships, dreams, etc. She’s been through the worst and knows how dark it can get down there. However, she knows herself because of this. No one would dare to step on her toes or get in her way. She’s comfortable in her own skin and has no hesitation in standing up for herself if she receives the slightest bit of disrespect.
She is beautiful. Inside and out. Her smile glows and her laughter can be heard from miles and miles away. She’s the type of friend that will never leave your side. No matter the distance or if times have changed, she will always be there for you if you need anything. She has spent a lot of time alone, figuring out how to best love and treat herself. She knows and loves herself best, therefore she knows how to love others effectively and with compassion.
So go outside with confidence, channel your inner Beyoncé, and be the queen of the world.
