Speed dating is the flavor of town today. You have a lot of youngsters going in for it. Should you not know the basic etiquettes of dating then? We try to hone in these facts so that you can use them to your advantage.

Use compliments but do not overdo it: It is perfectly natural that she might have done some hard work in order to impress you. Compliment her on her dress sense and looks. It is quite warranted. A little bit of praise is always welcome. Avoid overdoing it as it may sound artificial and repulsive. Use the correct language and avoid any words which sound sensual such as "smoking hot". You can reserve these words for the future.

Insist on paying the restaurant bill: It is in the order of things that man should pay the bill on the first date. Politely dissuade her from paying. If she still insists on sharing the bill, tell her gently that she can do it from the next date onwards. But as of now, you have to foot the bill.

Do not forget to be chivalrous: It is agreed she might be an independent woman. But does that prevent you from opening the door for her? She would never mind it at all. On the contrary she would love it.

Mind your manners: Treat the hotel staff and waiters with the respect they deserve. She might judge you by the way you behave with others. As soon as the date is over, give her a parting handshake or hug. If the occasion demands it a kiss also should do. But, as far as possible hold the kiss for a later occasion.

Put away the mobile phone: Constantly checking on your mobile phone is bound to irritate anybody. Put away the mobile phone for some time. Both of you deserve undivided attention. The social media can wait.

Learn to listen: This is a tip especially for women as women like to talk a lot. Listening once in a while is always good for you. Once you listen he will feel that he is being felt wanted. Asking relevant questions here and there would make him feel that you are showing interest in him and that would encourage him to open up.

Be honest to yourself: Always strive to speak the truth. You should accept him or her for what they are and not what they appear to be.

Body language is very important: It does not harm anybody if you smile enough. The first impression is usually the last one. Make sure that your body language is impressive enough for her to admire you.

Occasionally flirt with her: There is no harm in flirting with her lightly. Never cross the line though. A mild touch here and there is always welcome. Being flirtatious with her will bring your playful nature out into the open. Make eye contact with her constantly as this would make her feel wanted.

Relax: Be cool. This is your first date. It might be her first too. Both would be equally nervous. Always try to be first one to break the ice. This could solve a lot of issues.

The above tips can be applicable to both the genders. Have a nice time and try to make the dating event as entertaining as possible. This might be the beginning of a great life together.