Mom,

I just wanted to say thank you for all that you’ve done for me over the years. You have taught me to be appreciative and respectful as well as a strong and independent woman. Your long lectures have paid off because I have learned so much from you. I have learned that I can do anything that I want to do and that my self-worth is greater than I know. I have learned how to be a better person and to love my family the way it is.

Sure, we had hard times and we fought at some points, but what mother and daughter haven’t? I have learned more about you than I ever would have with both parents in the household, and I appreciate it. I got to learn about who you were when you were my age and how you lived your life. I got to learn about your life goals and hobbies. Most of all, I got to learn about how much you love all your children more than yourself.

I also want to say thank you for making me think about things. When I say something that you don’t agree with, you talk me through your view and it opens my eyes to what other people may think. I appreciate the way you make sure I treat everyone with respect, regardless of who they are. You also make me think about spending, whether it’s spending money or spending time with the wrong people. You have guided me through gross, toxic relationships and how to rise above the hatred of others (even if the higher road is under construction). Because of that, I feel like a better person.

It never felt like I didn’t have both parents around. I never felt an absence of love and affection from another parent. I don't know how you did it mom, but I never once missed the presence of my father in my life. You have provided me with enough love to last 3 lifetimes, and for that, thank you.

Happy Father’s Day, Mom,

Love,

Your favorite child.