I was born and raised in Maryland, but I am technically of southern descent because my dad's side of the family comes from the South. My grandmother is a small town girl from Hamlet, North Carolina and my grandfather was from Ocala, Florida. I am around that side if the family a lot, so there are times when I find myself doing things that southerners would do. Listed below are signs that you are of southern descent. Let's get right into it y'all!
1. A trip to Bojangles' is a recipe for excitement
What southerner doesn't like a restaurant that serves delicious southern food? I will gladly get a few pieces of fried chicken and slap a few fixin's (sides) on my plate as well. Let's not forget to grab a Bo-Berry Biscuit for dessert!
Speaking of food...
2. Fried chicken with a side of macaroni and cheese is like heaven
Please excuse me while I allow my mouth to water for a few minutes.
3. You hear the expression, "bless your heart" a lot.
A personal example is whenever I do something nice for my dear North Carolina grandmother. Without fail, she will tell me "bless your heart" as she gives me a hug.
4. You are familiar with the slang used in southern states
Just by spending a lot of time with my grandmother, I have learned some North Carolina slang. Here's a little dictionary:
fixin' to- getting ready to/about to do something
Example: I'm fixin' to take a shower and go to bed.
right quick- real quick
Example: Let me see your phone right quick.
act ugly- exhibit bad behavior
Example: She was acting ugly because her mom and dad said she couldn't spend the night with her boyfriend.
5. You grew up with church and Christianity
My dad's side of the family are very religious people. Ever since I was a young one, I went to church with them on Sundays every time I spent time with them. I must say that I am a proud Christian. I know that not all southerners are religious, but the ones I know have some sort of Christian background.
6. Manners are a way of life
Yes ma'am/no ma'am, yes sir/no sir, and please/thank you, etc. become second nature at an early age.
7. Grits, mashed potatoes, greens, and sweet potatoes are common side dishes
Don't believe me? Just ask my grandma.
8. Hugs are given when greeting or saying goodbye to someone
Even if someone us not a family member, we hug them :)
These are all based on my personal experiences. I must say I am proud to be half southerner. Stay blessed, y'all.