I'm definitely not the first to say it, but 2016 was the most emotionally draining year I have lived through. I'm sure I don't need to remind anyone about what we have lost, but haven't we gained some insight, too? I plan on giving up a ton in 2017, but after some much-needed reflection on the past year, I know I will be taking at least some ideals with me into the new year.
1. Wariness of news sources.
I am not necessarily one to believe everything I read on the internet, and it's not because I am all into conspiracy theories and doubt everything people tell me until I have physical proof. Especially after the many stories influencing the presidential election that were proven to be false, we all need to be aware of where our sources come from.
2. Political curiosity.
I'm nervous about what might become of America after the inauguration, but this isn't only about Trump. Our country (and its affairs with other countries) needs to stay in the forefront of our minds; we need to care about local and state governments. We need to keep moving this country forward. It really does begin with us.
3. Prince, George Michael and David Bowie's discographies.
Their music will live on, as well as their dedication to breaking down gender barriers and influencing others in positive ways. They each built a beautiful foundation for not just music, but for people to fully be true to who they are.
4. Thinking before I speak.
It may have taken me years to learn, but it is better to be present and actually listen to someone else before sharing my personal opinions and beliefs. I will speak only when it is needed, but I will still fight for what is right—and I will be louder than before.
5. A guarded heart.
My mom loves the phrase "toxic people," but I never understood it until 2016. I'm going to be open to love and new relationships, but I refuse to trust everyone. Not everyone deserves to be trusted.
6. These words from Carrie Fisher:
"Living with manic depression takes a tremendous amount of balls... it's something to be proud of, not ashamed of." (Insert any mental or chronic illness, or any trial you're going through, into this quote and it rings true for us all.)
