Girls will always be your worst enemy.

That statement is truer now than ever.

I've always had trouble staying friends with girls because of either something I did to help them out as a friend or they were jealous for some odd reason. My whole college career, I've strived to be the best person and student possible; I joined clubs and organizations in leadership positions and most importantly, I've tried my best to remain kind and wholesome to every person that I crossed paths with. Sadly, as five years have passed, I have had to burn bridges with people who were toxic to my character growth, but overall I've done pretty well. But I have come to learn that some girls will secretly be your "ain't sh*t" friend.

Now let's define what an "ain't sh*t" friend is!

This is clearly someone who doesn't care about your darkest times or wouldn't stand up for you, though they like to pretend that they would. Their advice would steer you down the wrong path and even if you can't tell that they're not sh*t, a true friend who is on the sidelines can tell for you.

Girls may come off to be the dirtiest of enemies when it comes to taking others down, but really they're the most scared. Some girls certainly know how to talk the talk but stumble and fall like a toddler, when they attempt to walk the walk. This rough and tough personality shows to be a cover that they know themselves that they are weak. Lately, I've seen girls tear each other down behind each others back and honestly, it's the saddest occurrence to watch. Yeah, I'm not going to lie, I have vented to my closest friends about girls that I don't like but I never say anything to them for a reason.

It's not worth my time.

Now, if these girls disrespect people I care about, then I'll set them in their place, but if they are mad that I'm making most of my opportunities, then, why waste my time?

But here is what girls need to realize:

If you have a problem with someone, tell them. Be a woman, and stand up for yourself.

Got a problem? Express it.

Don't be weak and hide behind your words which you use to hide behind someone else, what kind of person does that make you?

I choose personally to not confront others and worry about what others think about me. Obviously, if they spend so much time talking about me or judging me, they admire how far I've come in a short amount of time. The way others talk about their "best friend" or give death stares to me when I'm doing work I'm supposed to doesn't get them far. I'll keep up being good 'ol me and having the best time of my life ... while others remain miserable in their lowly lives.

Don't tear other girls down, lift them up.