When you say you are a fangirl people start to judge you. They assume you are a screaming crying obsessive person and it makes them think you are weird. They think it it is just a new generation thing and it is something that makes us a bad generation. A lot of guys think that we are stupid for being fan girls. For crying over a band breaking up, a show ending, a movie series last movie. But those same guys scream at a tv and threaten to break things when their favorite sports team loses a game.
Being a fangirl is one of the best things I have ever done in my life. Not only do I get to enjoy something I love but I have also made some amazing friends from fangirling. It is also just a fun experience to love something so much that you dedicate parts of your life to something that brings you something so much joy in life. I am so sick of people shaming fangirls.
Yes, we scream over small things. Yes, we cry over a lot of things. We always make references to things about our fandom. But there is no need to make fun of us for doing so. It makes us happy. Just like sports make you happy, or shopping makes you happy.
Our fandoms are our happiness. They are things we can always fall back on even if we are having an awful day.They are what help some of us come out of our shells and make friends.
You may not like what we are into but that doesn't give you the right to shut us down and make us feel like we are less than because we like something you don’t. This fangirl stuff isn’t new just look back at Beatlemania. That is exactly what is happening now but just with things like One Direction, Doctor Who, Riverdale. We are allowed to love what we want to express it how ever we want. If that means wearing merch or getting a tattoo, making references when something reminds us of it. We can do that. It is what makes us happy and I don't get why anyone would want to shame someone for being happy. I would rather everyone I know be happy and be in a fandom than be upset. Being a fan girl doesn't mean we are crazy obsessed it just means that we love something so much that we have no other way to express it. So we scream, cry and buy merch.
So to all the fangirls out there. Be strong, be proud and fangirl your hearts out because nobody should be ashamed for loving something!



















