In today's society, there is a huge problem with instant gratification. Anything you want can be easily given to you, and you don't really have to wait for much. So that means that when we do have to wait for something we tend to get pretty grumpy.

So why should we wait for our relationship to progress and get married to start having sex, I mean it feels good right?

However, many people don't understand the long-term implications of having sex with somebody you barely know. I myself believe in being chaste until marriage, but I will write to more than just that audience because everybody has different values and I'm not going to change them on that. T

When getting into a relationship there are so many more important and precious things about a person than their crack-a-lacking body. Plus, there are a variety of issues that come from doing this. You make your whole relationship based on superficial happiness instead of long-term, the minute one of you decides that you're not happy with how it is going anymore the relationship is over. If you instead get into a relationship with them because you enjoy their personality, you will be able to love them even when they may have made you mad doing something stupid.

I believe that this issue may come from the fact that we believe that we can find our soulmate by kissing them or seeing what chemistry we have with them. However, I believe that there are many different personalities or people that we could end up marrying, it just depends on where we are in our lives and where they are in their life. Plus, the added pressure of saying that somebody is your soulmate and that you could be with no one else can sometimes add extra pressure to your relationship that it may not be able to withstand.

I believe the best way to start a relationship is to go on friendly dates and just get to know them. It's even better if you have been friends with someone for awhile because people are more willing to expose the true side of themselves when you are friends with them compared to when you are going on a date with them. Everybody wants to make the best impression they can on a date, so sometimes they will lie and act differently to ensure you want to go on another date with them.

There is nothing wrong with having sex in a relationship, but it is better to wait so that it's an added intimacy and not what the whole relationship is about. So when you think of the next person you want to date, think about if your personalities are compatible or if you just like them because of their body.