Working as a waitress

My 'First Friday' As A Waitress

José hates First Friday.


Friday, June 1st was my first "First Friday" as a waitress. What does this mean? Simply that I had a million and one tables to serve and messed up... a lot.

If you're not familiar with the term First Friday, it's basically the first Friday of every month when little towns offer discounts, live music and other things that bring people out. All of this is to increase business and give people more of a reason to go out to eat and shop. Well, my restaurant offered no such discounts and the only live music was the one you could hear from the other side of the street, but we still got the bombarded with business!

That being said, I have only been working as a waitress for the past two weekends. I walked into Carisma Mexican Restaurant on a Thursday and asked if they were hiring for the summer. The owner, José, was eager and said "Yes see you tomorrow at 5." And since then I have been working at this Mexican restaurant, with no training and two fellow employees.

As my fourth day as a waitress, I was excited about First Friday. More tables and more tips! My shift started at five and things were going fine, just like they did last Friday, until the kitchen got backed up. Note that I have only one coworker, there is one chef and seating inside, upstairs, and outside. So this was pretty hectic! José's in the kitchen slaving away, me and the other waiter were taking orders left and right. "Oh you need more water, sure I'll be right out with that," "You're ready for the bill? Ok I'll bring that right out," "Yes I can bring you some chips and salsa, sorry for the wait!" Everyone on our staff (all three of us) was in maximum overdrive.

Kids were asking for their chicken nuggets, couples were glancing toward the kitchen with impatient stares, large parties were going through complimentary tortilla chips like there was no tomorrow. One woman sent her steak back three times before she decided that she just didn't want steak.

Right when it was about to slow down, we had a table of 8 women come in for a birthday. Our restaurant id BYOB, and they definitely brought their own. This large party ended up being my table and didn't leave until after we closed. As they were packing their leftovers and leftover drinks, the birthday girl called me and the other waiter over, "Take a shot with us?" Of course we did, Feliz Cumpleaños!

Well, that was my First Friday. Pretty eventful, pretty fun, and a total learning experience. As a new waitress, I'm always learning new things, where the spoons go, how to make the guacamole, the words to the Spanish songs I listen to for hours. I love my job with Carisma and wouldn't trade it. And I'm kind of excited for next First Friday!

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5 Bible Verses For The Job Seeking Grad

His plan is better than anything we could ever imagine.

Finding a job is not what it used to be. Having a back pocket stuffed with resumes isn't the way to go, but rather creating the perfect resume that recruiters can be convinced in six seconds. In addition, the wording of your resume goes through a system before reaching the hands of a recruiter, which uses an algorithm to eliminate resumes that don't include specific wording. Tough crowd, huh?

So if you feel down in the dumps from writing countless "About Me's" and "Why you should choose me's" then look to the Lord. He has a plan and it is better than anything we could ever imagine. Here are 5 Bible verses to regain your confidence:

1. Proverbs 19:21 - There are many plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s plan that will stand.

Try replacing "a man's" with your name. For example, There are many plans in Lauren's heart, but it is the Lord's plan that will stand. I'm guilty of trying to create a thirty-year plan when it is truly not up to me. My plan is already written and stressing isn't going to change anything, except my sanity.

2. Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans I have for you," says the Lord, "plans for well-being and not for trouble, to give you a future and a hope."

This bible verse is all over the pages on Pinterest and in every Instagram bio. God doesn't create stress or make us worried. It's our own human nature that takes over when we can't see a vision of the future. As long as we trust in the Lord and his plan, then worry and stress will fly out the window.

3. Matthew 6:8 - Do not be like them. Your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.

How many Facebook posts have you come across that go along the lines of a new job, new city, and a start date? And immediately it feels like a waiting game that is never going to come to an end. Since we are constantly being influenced by what is around us, we start to base our own accomplishments next to everyone else. Just remember that God is working through a million options to get you where he wants you. Have faith that something so great is being built and it's going to be exactly where you should be.

4. Romans 8:28 - We know that God makes all things work together for the good of those who love Him and are chosen to be a part of His plan.

He is working to get you where you need to be. Even though it feels like the train has repeatedly left without you, it means the shiniest, most grand train is headed your way and you better be ready!

5. Psalm 32:8 - I will show you and teach you in the way you should go. I will tell you what to do with My eye upon you.

Look back on everything you have accomplished. Make a list so you can see what God has planned for you. He is constantly reminding you and giving you signs to go a certain way and jump that unbearable hurdle. The easiest way to describe God's works is by thinking of a jigsaw puzzle. He is giving you a piece every day, which will eventually look like a masterpiece. Answer his call by looking for ways he is building your puzzle.

The more you plan, the more that gets in the way of His Plan.

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To The College Student Graduating Without A Job Offer, Rejection Is Part Of The Process

Keep your head up. Stay optimistic. Everything happens for a reason.


To the Graduating College Student Who Doesn't Have a Post-Grad Job Yet,

I know exactly how you're feeling right now. All your friends are securing their first post-graduation job and you have nothing yet. If you're like me, you probably feel a little bit worthless and unwanted. You keep applying to jobs, re-touching up your resume and Curriculum Vitae, and writing cover letter after cover letter in the hopes that someone, anyone will take you and your talents.

(And you ARE talented... you're graduating with a degree. Don't forget that.)

It's something that you can't avoid either. Almost every day, there's a new post on Facebook that's starting with, "I'm so excited to announce that I got hired at *insert boujee company here.*" You want to be excited for your friends and you are genuinely happy for them but to be honest, it's frustrating and hard when you are sitting there empty-handed. Just this morning, I got another "thanks but no thanks" notification from one of the 32+ jobs that I applied for. Rejection is part of the process and I guarantee that both you and I will be rejected many more times.

You just have to keep reminding yourself that you WILL get a job. Things like this doesn't just happen overnight. Also, you are not alone in this...there are a million other graduating college seniors that are still jobless. I have friends who graduated last year and they still are struggling to find work that fits their major. So, while it may seem like you're the only one who's going through this annoyingly stressful process, you AREN'T.

Keep applying for jobs. Keep your head up. Stay optimistic. Everything happens for a reason. There will be an employer who will see all your potential and will hire you. Keep working for your goals and you reap the benefits one day. Remember that people like Oprah, Steve Jobs, and Bill Gates all started at the bottom. It was because they stayed focused and dedicated to themselves and their goals that they were able to reach their success.

Sure, you may have to start out by waiting tables or work in a job that isn't ideal but it's a small stepping stone to your future success. It's going to be an uphill climb but you will be alright. Everyone usually always ends up fine, in the end, no matter how down in the dumps they are on the journey. Just never give up. It sounds cliche but it's so true...if you give up then you will never find the success you wanted and you will never be truly happy. You have only one life so you have to make it a good one. That means you have to balance your passions in with a job that will keep you wanting to continue in your field of work and to keep doing better.

You WILL succeed.

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