The Christmas season for most people is filled with happy times, loved ones, and joy. But for some, it's a time of sadness or heartbreak and no one seems to notice.
Most people assume that everyone has a Merry Christmas and that the holidays are easy for everyone, but that's not the case. For many, the holidays can bring up sad memories. From having family members who are deployed, to having loved ones who are sick, or who are deceased is can be a time of sadness and loss.
You never know what other people are going through. While they may be faking a smile and pretending to enjoy the holiday, it could be all an act in order to not bring other people down. It could be their first holiday season without a loved ones or their normal holiday traditions. They may choose to talk about it, or prefer to keep it to themselves.
I encourage everyone this holiday season to be sensitive to those who you know are experiencing loss. If you personally know someone who is going through a hard time then topics that you know could bring up sadness isn't a good idea.
While I see nothing wrong in wishing someone a Merry Christmas, if they don't respond seem unenthusiastic don't be offended. You never know what they could be going through. The best thing to do is let people know that you care about them, support them, and that you are there for them during a time when they don't feel very cheerful on their own.
