In almost every group of friends you will find that one who is bitchy, sassy, or an asshole. Whether you're one of these or the mix, "sasshole," these are nine moments you go through being that friend.

1. Successfully throwing shade. Every single time you get together with the squad, for some reason you got to throw someone(s) a backhanded compliment. It's mostly in good fun.
2. Having perfect comebacks when a friend tries to come at you. There’s always the moment when that one friend decides to shoot back with a few of his or her own smart-aleck comments. After the squad’s initial shock at a talk back, you get the satisfaction of throwing them a witty response before a second even goes by.
3. Mastering the art of the side eye. You use this whenever you’re too tired for words. Whether you didn’t get enough sleep or just aren’t in the mood to entertain things with vocabulary, someone will say or do something that you want to acknowledge with attitude in some way, and having those eyes burn into their face gets your point across.
4. Mastering the eye roll. Honestly, you use this whenever you hear something stupid or hella corny.
5. Saying what’s on everyone’s mind. OK, so you can be a bit blunt some of the time. But the whole point of being a friend is to be real with them, right? While some of your friends may tiptoe or lie about how they really feel on a certain subject in regard to a friend, you’re being the realest by saying the truth. Even though it could’ve been delivered more gently.
6. Unintentionally crossing the line. You realize this probably after you say something and the area gets a little too quiet. It’s that moment where maybe you hit a little too below the belt. You probably should’ve held back some of those thoughts.
7. Considering what you say. You know you may have a tendency to say the wrong things unintentionally. It’s just a habit at this point, but sometimes with certain friends, you have to process what you’re about to say to avoid accidentally snubbing them.
8. Being hard to read. No one believes you when you’re excited or even just content because everything you say seems to come out sarcastic or moody. Your body language and tone just naturally have this moodiness as if you are forever unimpressed.
9. That awkward moment when someone comes at you and you don’t have a comeback. And of course the moment of defeat when someone serves you your life on a platter and you don’t have any response. You probably just sit there staring at them (another place for side eye) and then just try to brush it off like you didn’t just get what you’ve had coming.