People tell me often that sarcasm is not the answer to my problems. I'm also reminded quite frequently that it isn't appropriate to reference Parks and Rec quotes in the midst of an argument. Me? I think sarcasm makes the world go round.
Sarcasm isn't just a rebellious teen's way to be sassy without consequence, it's an art form. One that I believe is crucial to perfect. The witty comebacks associated with sarcasm are both respected and considered rude, depending on the audience. I prefer to surround myself with those who appreciate quick and clever comebacks, because in reality, sarcasm is not something that any regular Joe can accomplish. So, why is it so frowned upon to turn to sarcasm as a form of expression?
Many would respond to this question by saying that it often offends people. That's true. But I also find it offensive when people simply smile at me a throw a false compliment in my face to deflect the insecurities that they are facing. What makes one better than the other? I don't think anything does. I think the problem with sarcasm is that it is confused with “dissing" people, and that some audiences do not always understand the references. Being made to feel unintellectual causes hurt, and can spark a dislike for sarcasm.
All in all, let the people of the free world feel sassy and smart. Let us put our foot in our mouth from time to time. Let us hold an entire argument with someone using only movie quotes until they realize we're being sarcastic, and make the argument worse for the sake of honest fun. A little sarcasm never hurt anybody…physically.
P.S. I apologize for anyone who was offended by this, as the great Leslie Knope once said, “We need to remember what's important in life: friends, waffles, and work."
